we have been together for 2 and a half years. I love him with all my heart, but he doesn't treat me like he use to.. I live with my dad due to money issues and he lives with his mom also due to money issues.. But he use to want to come out here and stay with me and wanted to go do things, the past few months he mostly wants to stay home, play his xbox or online poker. I tell him that it hurts my feelings that he doesn't want to come out here anymore and he says he just likes to stay home. If we go anywhere he normaly takes a friend of his.. his friend also goes to his house a lot (his friend is a male). He doesn't understand why I get upset and cry sometimes because He doesn't act like he use to.. It just seems like he doesn't love me anymore.. I'm in the process of tryin to find my own place hopein that will work.. any advice?
2006-12-11 12:41:50 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also he hasn't been here the past 2 weeks because he ended up wreckin his car and it's been in the shop. wich I understand, but he says he can't get a way up here, but yet he went down to the bar and got drunk the past 2 sat nights. He is also friends with this one girl that I do not trust at all.. I trust my bf with all my heart. but she has waited untill guys have gotten drunk and then she'll try to take advantage of that. so i get worried that she'll try something when I'm not around downtown.. I just wish things would be as they were before
2006-12-11 12:44:29 · update #1
Aww. Sweety I'm in the same situation.
I've been with my boyfriend almost two years. It feels like he's stopped caring as well. I love him to death and I would do anything for him.
You need to sit him down in a room and just tell him everything. how you feel. if he doesn't understand take a break with him.
good luck and i hope it works for you.
2006-12-11 12:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by small one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about. If he's acting different, there has got to be a reason as to why. Maybe he's bored or cheating? Trust your intuition, if you suspect something is wrong, it probably is. But try talking to him first and if you can’t get through to him do a little investigating. It looks like there are concerns about this “girl” friend of his. Maybe you should look into that as well.
I don't know if getting your own place will help or break the relationship. Try talking to him as to why he's changed so much, maybe he'll open up.
2006-12-11 20:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi love!
It's me. Do you have to tell our problems to half the fcuking world? I've told you once and I'll tell you again; i'm trying to win us millions on the poker so I can sort our money worries.
Get of the bloody net! I'll been trying to telephone you for 7 hours. I wish you had broadband.
2006-12-11 20:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are bullheaded and for the most part - stupid in relationships. He may very well love you, but he is taking you for granted. Dump him. It's the only thing that will open his eyes. Don't be whiney, don't be needy - be firm. You may have to do the best acting you have ever done in your life, but he will come around, once he realizes that he could lose you for good. Unfortunatley, with men, you do have to play games.
2006-12-11 20:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by RubyD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds as though he's into something he doesn't want you to know about. I realize this may hurt you very much, but i put things truthfully. If he doesn't come around and tell you what's going on, which is possible, let him go and continue your life.
2006-12-11 20:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt suggest you upset your living. I dont think it will be helpful, and it will undoubtedly put you in a financial bind for nothing. Perhaps you've both outgrown each other. Why not simply take a break, and see if that doesnt re-ignite a few sparks.
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 20:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my boyfriend changed soooooooooooooooooooooo much
like omg your a valley girl
2006-12-11 20:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by ~YuM yUm LoLipOpS~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him hes just not that into you.
You can do better!
2006-12-11 20:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋