I JUST WANT TO SAY THANKS FOR UR ENCOURAGEMENT, THE OTHERS ARE CALLING ME NAMES BUT U ARE SAYING THE TRUTH....THE TRUTH HURTS BUT MUST BE ACCEPTED. i will wait for his divorce then when he is single again, we will get married.If he does not love me truely, he wont divorce his wife for me.Sometimes people end up realising they did not marry their true love. Thanks!!!
2006-12-11 12:37:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i answered your other question.... i just wanted to say that i do not judge you, i really wanted you to consider the "what ifs" of everything. i know my husband loved... still loves the other women... i am trying to forgive him for the betrayl... what most people can't understand is... i am trying to forgivie him for the betayal of all of us... he betrayed me... her... and himself. i am also trying to forgive myself... for betraying myself... it hurts so bad when you know that the peson you love had many oprotunities to tell you the truth... when you would ask point blank.... did you do this, or did you do that etc... and you know they did b/c you have proof, they tell you a lie, then you show them the proof... and then they still lie. yes, i betrayed myself for trying to believe what i knew was not true. please... i don't really know you, but God made us all, and God dosn't make junk. we all deserve the truth... find out what that is ask the wife... she will tell you... you might have to put up with a few four letter words etc... if she says you can have him.. then you know that he's done this to her before and she's sick of it. if she says what the f... then you know you just blindsided her and she thought the marriage was fine, but at least she knows. if you blindside her and the man dosn't ever talk to you agian then you know that he never had any intention of of honoring his feelings for you in public. on the flip side if you blindside her and he quikly resolves his anger for the distress you've caused to his daily routine then his feelings might be genuine. at which point you tell him that you will be waiting, but you love him too much to continue untill he is divorced, or seperated. the strange thing about me is i was the one who was betrayed, and i really felt like i was standing in the way... i saw the look the two of them had... it was true... they were meant to be together... they looked sooo happy... but he just couldn't do what had to be done to be with her b/c he cared too much what other people would say. now i still have him, and i feel like a cosolation prize even though i'm the wife. ugghhh what a tangled web we weave... i wish you good luck... if it's "meant to be" it will... if he's strongh enough to deal with what the world will say about him, and you.
feel free to write me if you want. i can answer any questions on the flip side (a wife's view) without judgment.
2006-12-11 13:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no lady listen, he will leave you too in the end and to be honest i hope he does, its all you deserve, look at how many people discourage you to the d**ks that dont, god they say love is blind, wake up marriage wrecker
2006-12-11 20:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i didnt call you a name i just told you to keep your knickers on, he will not leave his wife
2006-12-11 20:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by jac 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
You look hot! Fancy a date?
2006-12-11 20:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
gd luck with ur life!
2006-12-11 20:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its true sometimes we people are constantly looking for our soulmate and end up married the wrong one. And when finally we found our soulmate we are married or attached...
2006-12-11 20:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋