What do 14 year old guys want from girls?

Question

I'm not interested in answers like, 'wow, your way too old to be thinking of guys. concentrate on your school work!'
No one listens to these, and they are stupid.

I want to know what a guy looks for in a girl, what he likes about girls, the best part of a girl, and how far he'd be willing to go to get her. I guess it would be good to know if he'd want her to drink or not.

I just want to know!!!
10 points to best answer!!!

Answer 1

Boys that age want sex. Only sex. Nothing more than sex. They will take it from a girl if she's drunk, sober, fat, thin, blond, brunette. They will tell a girl they love her when they don't. They will lie, lie, lie. Their only mission in life is to have sex with someone female. It doesn't matter what her age is and it usually doesn't matter what she looks like. That is the TRUTH of it and its been that way for hundreds of years.

Answer 2

Too old...ha... more like WaY ToO YoUnG!!!

and ya, you should still concentrate on school.... but seriously, if you want to go ahead and have a crush or a bf.

ummm... i find most guys i know don't think that differently then us girls.

Personality and looks are big factors.

Personality wise... i can tell you ... no matter what age a keeper shouldn't like a "other word for female dog that's starts with B"

and that what they preference for looks differs from every single person, just like us girls, some like rockers, some like poets. so on, so forth

try being a persons friend to see if they are even worthy of you

Answer 3

Sure, 14 year olds start to have that sexual interest, but I don't know if that is ALL they are after at that age (now maybe later high school and into their 20s.....LOL!).

Sometimes I wonder if it is a social/popularity thing. I had always noticed that you would always see the popular guys with the popular chicks, etc.

I don't think ALL guys are superficial (at that age or any age), but I am sure it wouldn't be too hard to rule out those who are!! I would encourage you to to be yourself and not who you **THINK** someone wants someone to be. If you can do that, you should have no problems with finding someone that wants you for YOU and not for other purposes.

Answer 4

A girl that will go as far with him sexually as possible. Fourteen year old guys are, um how should I say . . . can't keep it in their pants. Some guys are not like that, but don't confuse a guy who is just after sex for someone who really cares. At the age of 14 in most cases there is no "true love" or "caring" but rather . . . well just remember boys at this age are horny little perverts!

Answer 5

what the hell? Not all guys are like that. I don't just want sex. All of ya'll girls probabaly think more about sex than we do. I want to go to school everday and see her. I want her to love me for who I am and not for looks, and I will do the same for her. I'm waiting till abstinence(waiting to have sex until your married.) I like long-term relationships. I hate having 2 week relationship. In fact, at 2 weeks you can't even call it a relationship. You girls might be right about some guys, but not me.

Answer 6

Sure guys like sex, but it was my younger girlfriend wanting to use sex to keep me in the relationship!

However, to maybe help you, personality goes a long way. You don't have to be a perfect 10 if you are friendly. Someone who is friendly and really nice can be very attractive.

Answer 7

its not ALL about sex.
i've heard they think about xboxes and other video games.
sports, football and other weird stuff.
and sex too.
what matters most.....
i have ALSO heard that they like, scent, style, looks, sexyness, face, and other things.
the best part of a girl.....hmmm, everybody knows THIS.
how far they are willing to get her.....hHmM...truthfully, not very much.
at least not MY boyfriend..
i think that it just depends on the guy..

Answer 8

Ha, the same thing he will want for the rest of his life...
14 is just the beginning

Answer 9

I think you mean too young...
I'm no guy, but from my people watching skills, I think that the thing thatis important is looks, because face it or not, first impressions count for a whole lot. In the looks category is also clothing- how you dress (style, etc...) Generally, if you are extremely ugly, or dress in unclean clothing, a guy will not look further. The next thing that would attract a guy is personality. I think for the most part at this age guys like outgoing girls more, just because they're easier to be around. Although some guys might find this a turn-off.
As for looks, I think it all depends on the guy- just like there is a variety of the way girls like guys, there is a variety of the way guys like girls. I think that as long as you are not hideously obese or genuinely ugly, there will be several guys who might consider going out with you. I've heard that guys like redheads because they're so 'exotic', and the same goes for non-brown eyes because it is more unusual, although, again, it all depends on the guys preference. At 13, I trhink I'd say actually having some semblance of boobs might help, but at 14, most girls have them, so its not so much of a big deal
As for how far he'd go for her, I think that it might be the same as a girl would go for a guy, although at 14 in our society clingy-ness in girls is much more socially acceptable then in guys- so they might not be willing to go as far to get her just because of peer influence/criticism (aka his friends might make fun of him for it) As for drinking, it depends on the guy, but I think that they might have a problem with the vomiting that might accompany drinking, as opposed to the drinking itself, especially if you throw up near/on him- because no one likes a vomiting girl.
As for saying guys only think about sex, well, they think about other things, but you know what? girls think about sex just as much, although we might not share it in the locker room or anything. Again, its our society's views on sexuality.
I used to think that guys thought much differently than girls do, but now I'm starting to realize that we're really quite similar...
I realize that this is quite vague, but I hope it helps anyway, because you can't really say that all guys like a girl with a 23.5 in waist, etc...

Answer 10

Of course you are thinking of boys and they are right it is sex and that is why you should keep your mind on school you will reget it later when you find someone who truly loves you for you and you've already done something.