I like this girl and all ,but i am afraid that i don't think she likes me bakc, becuase i am short. I want to get a girlfriend, but i can't find any girls as tall as me. I am like the shortest kid in school . T_T
2006-12-11 12:15:57 · 24 answers · asked by ninja_harvey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your confidence is what is hurting you the most... not your height.
a girl will not like you unless, at the very least, you have the confidence to know that you are enough for her. If you think you are good enough for her, you are. But if you don't think you are good enough for her, then you aren't good enough.
Improve your confidence by being good at things you are interested in (find passions)-- maybe it's grades, maybe it's going to the gym to get buff, maybe being good at a certain sport, maybe it's some other hobby, maybe it's buying some clothes that make you feel more comfortable and attractive in-- anything to improve your confidence.
Hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-12-11 12:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by ftz 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No fear! I am here!
Okay! listen!! This is what you do. Because this is what I did and it worked! Got the girl!
Find some (or buy) 2 long wooden sticks. Buy a long pair of trousers. Long enough to cover the wood.
With me?
Practise walking on them. Get good at it. Do NOT walk around with a smile as people might notice a difference.
Right! Okay now! Go to school and if anyone looks up and say that you look extremely tall, say: "I've been eating porridge and the school nurse also mentioned that there is still lots of growth in me so (then pause) I guess this is it huh?"
Walk in class. You see the girl.
Say: Hello!
Wait for reaction! if she laughs. you've got the girl as she'll love your sense of humour. If she doesn't laugh but goes out with you. you'll have to gradually cut down your sticks an inch a week so she doesn't notice. As no girl likes to be made fun of.
Good luck my friend. I have faith in you.
2006-12-11 20:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality and confidence is EVERYTHING. I'm 5'5'' and I've dated shorted men. Most women prefer taller men because it makes them feel protected. That's a natural reaction, but it really doesn't matter, It doesn't to me and it doesn't to many people. Don't worry about getting a girl, usually if you look and finally get with someone it needs up being crappy. You will find someone, if the girl likes you then you will know and she will try to get with you or flirt or just be around you alot... Or call alot. That's just how girls are. The female you are meant to be with you will be with, don't be in a rush.
2006-12-11 20:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by _Lara_Bell_ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a girl doesn't like you because you're short, then she's a big waste of your time! How petty! Be patient and wait for someone who's not so silly about your height. I'm short too and if someone has a problem with it, tough. Don't be in a hurry for a girlfriend, we're a real handful! :)
2006-12-11 20:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by WiccaWoman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont let shortness stop u they wont care unless they r mean girls if they r give up on them they r a waste up time a real girl wuld xpt u for u r and wats inside not how u look on the outside xpt they will care if ur cute maybe...
2006-12-11 20:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mannie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
same with me. Im short ='( but not the shortest kid in school. Theres this girl thats kinda short but i really like her. its ok if you like someone taller than you. Dont let that get in your way.
2006-12-11 20:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by =\ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO worries... I'm 5'10 and I had tons of boys that were shoerter than me. It was hard to wait for the boys to spring up in school. In fact, my first bofy was 3 inches shorter than me! If you guys like each other then height shouldn't be a problem. Good luck!
2006-12-11 20:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter if your short, i've gone out with a lot of short guys, yeah at first your like .. i dunno, he's kinda short but if your a true nice person after you forget about shortness and like him for him. Don't worry, in my shool, the guy with the most girlfriends is the shortest guy cause he's the nicest and hottest :P
Hope it helps <33
2006-12-11 20:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't already assume she's going to say no. Everybody has some sort of "thing" they don't particularly like about themselves,(Unless they are total egotists!) A nice person and a good sense of humor goes a long way...be brave, go for it!
2006-12-11 20:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but think about your good qualities and focus on them. My boyfriend isn't very tall, but he is an awesome actor and a caring kind and sweet person.
Maybe win her over with your sense of humor? Your kindness? Your thoughtfulness?
I think girls care about these qualities far more than how tall you are.
Good Luck.
2006-12-11 20:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋