2006-12-11 12:15:56 · 20 answers · asked by Cori 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's really hard when doing it.. but as the people here have already told you, you do have to be confident... confident to know that your good person whatever you do is good enough for you because it makes you happy.. people will always judge no matter the cause they don't need a reason.. you can take it all your life or you can stand up to it.. and walk confident like you don't see them or hear them.. secoundly you have to verse what they say about you in your mind.. because they are looking for a person to break apart.... they had something bad happen or they had a bad day and they want to take it out on you cause they don't feel good about themselves do you honestly want to show them your weak..?? I don't think you are... I'm sure your an amazing person you just gota let it shine sweety
2006-12-11 12:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by endlesslove 24 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's natural for us to care about what others think of us, whether it is a stranger in a car who flipped us off or our parents disapproving of our behavior. We take pride when others find pride in our accomplishments. What would be the point of living if others around us did not take notice? We are certainly not an island & the things we do affect others as well. Life is more exciting when we have others to share it with, or others to disagree with.
I don't know if there is a correct answer to your question. Perhaps it's healthy to care what people think about us to an extent, it keeps us honest & with morals. It helps us realize that our actions can make someone cry or someone laugh. We strive to be better individuals because of the consequences of a hurtful action. These are just my thoughts.
Happy holidays!
2006-12-11 20:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by NautyRN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you get older it gets easier to not care what other people think of you. It is more of ,not minding if someone else has a bad opinion of you. Remember, it is "their" opinion, so it is "their" problem. If you worry about what others think of you ,you would never take any risks or do anything fun.. Most brilliant people where considered "crazy" by the masses.
2006-12-11 20:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by molly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have to find some way to make themselves feel better about themselves so they put people down. You shouldnt care what anyone thinks about you because on the inside we all are the same and beautiful in our own way otherwise god would not have made us for who we are and plus there is someone for everyone who feels the same way.
2006-12-11 20:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Mommi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who said who dont care? Realisticly nowadays world has become so matirialistic every body cares about what other person is thinking about Him/her.Its good in a way that keeps people To behaive.
2006-12-11 20:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Madiha R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just dont..if its not true dont worry about it..and if its true oh well screw it! just realize in the end knowone truly cares the only person who will is going to be urself..and u wont have anyone but urself so screw everyone..its about u! just dont ne such a drama queen/king...ealr to let go dont u ever take anything personal just think this i saw this somewhere on the internet "Im tired of those people, who think they know me when in reality they know NOTHING" i dont know i think it also depends with the kind of people u hang out i remember i used to care alot but than..i dunno i guess i grew out of it....just dont let other people control ur feelings..and Sh*t do it urself...dont give them the opporutunity to kick u while ur down...cause people will do it!
~take me as i am~
2006-12-11 20:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Take me As I am 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people claim to do this so they can seem unique. For others this is actually true because they have no friends no social life and nothing to lose so why not be a nerd?
2006-12-11 20:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mental Patient 29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't. Recognize it as a power play. You are one. They are many. You want to stay as one. Not like the many. So you just don't. So long as you know you are okay. Beyond that, anything they may have to say about you is a lie directly or based on one.
2006-12-11 20:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be confident in who you are and only worry about what the people you care about think.
2006-12-11 20:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jus act like no one else is around.. and more n likely people arent watchin just YOU.. or YOU at all. I always thought that. then come to realize like no one is really payin attentoin to ya
2006-12-11 20:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋