2006-12-11 12:09:37 · 51 answers · asked by Elizabeth A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no, get an education
2006-12-11 12:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by blackbeauty1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hundreds of people are going to say no, but I'm going to be neutral about that. It depends if you really want to fall in love at a yougn age. Do you A) Want to marry a women, and never actually have a life of independence B) Life your life by living through hard times, sucessing from schools, and getting a good job, and then marrying. If you have money, and rather be more of a father and husband, then you right ahead, but if you want to be first sucessful and actualyl living the life, then don't. There is a
more of a chance your not going to be with her forever, unlike the olden days. Before marrying her, you better have money, and a house to support your wife. This is a hard decision, so you better think wise. Ask your parents, and your girlfriend you might get engaged with. Don't make this a quick decision, and this is a serious action.
2006-12-11 12:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by lizarose2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes marriage can ruin your life especially at a young age at times parents stop helping and money can become a hassel. You may fall behind in school and things like that. Marriage at an early age can be a mistake i think you should wait till you are at least 18 becasue then you are close to graduating any guy who thinks he's in love with you will wait untill your ready. But there are some decisions you have to make on your own we can only guide you and help you see clear don't say something just because someone tells you to. Do what you fell in you heart and your head listen to information and do the right thing.
I hope I helped
2006-12-11 12:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by littlewitch19912006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good idea, but, on the other hand, it's not such a terrible idea either; when it ends in disaster, you'll still be young enough to try again with someone more mature. (If you marry someone else that is 16, it won't work because neither of you will be 'adult' enough to work it out, and if you marry someone older, they'll be the kind of immature person who wants to marry a 16-year-old, so by the time you are 18 or 19, they'll lose interest.)
2006-12-11 12:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stay in school and learn how to spell correctly. Get your education and then you will have the knowledge to know whether you are ready to get married. See the world, do things you really want to do before you settle down with just one person. You have alot of living to do sweetie, don't throw your life away at 16. You are just a baby. You will find Mr. Right and when you do you won't have to ask anyone if you should get married, you will automatically know. Good Luck!
2006-12-11 12:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, No, no, NO! You are too young, and you will regret it someday. My daughter got married at 18, had a baby by nineteen, now at 25 she has two children and her entire life are those two children. All her friends are either still in school, or have graduated and starting careers and basically having the time of their lives. My daughter is a good Mom, but she is realising all that she has missed out on. Marriage and having babies can wait til you have an education and lived a little
2006-12-11 12:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Why? Don't you have other aspirations besides being someone's wife? You'll miss a lot of fun and independence if you marry so young. I think if you marry before getting an education you are selling yourself short. Remember 50% of marriages in this country end in divorce. The odds are against you already. Set yourself up with an education before you may be stuck with him and his babies and no way out. Wait until you're in your twenties and then decide. If he loves you he'll be there then too.
2006-12-11 12:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't if I were you. Even if you are in love, you could wait a few years. This way you could continue school and living like a normal 16 year old for a little while and then get married later if your relationship lasts. You don't want to rush into anything. Waiting can't hurt...
2006-12-11 12:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by jdrum311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make that mistake. GO TO COLLGE!! If you're in love, stay w/ ur mate and wait until you at least leave undergraduate school. then u can get married. but at the age of 16? that is way too young!
2006-12-11 12:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lolz
only after you can successfully spell 'married' can you get married.
and even when you can spell it, i suggest waiting till your at least 25 to consider marriage. getting married at 16 will be like throwing away your young years. your not going to have a teenage life and you'll never get that back. ever.
2006-12-11 12:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HY,please don't make a mistake,don't marry at 16,you are to young!My mom marry at 17 years old and know she tells me to not marry at a young age!That she doesn't even want to tell me how she had her life!!Please don't do it!!
2006-12-11 12:16:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋