My wife and I are both very interested and willing in having a threesome with another woman. However, we don't know where to look, how to approach a woman, etc. Should my wife approach her? Should I? Help!
2006-12-11 12:08:04 · 12 answers · asked by chucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you care to answer, don't judge us. We are both ok with it. We have already watched each other make-out with others. What works for some people might not be what works for you.
2006-12-11 12:15:18 · update #1
There are plenty of pay web sites devoted to this but for free, you might want to try an ad on craigslist. It keep things geographically close as well as sharing the same interests. They are free. Sure you get some judgmental people but they are, more than putting you down, clarifying their own beliefs for themselves.
Still, many people who have tried it report it later screwed up their first relationship. But as long as you two have talked it over, and already experimented with sex with others, you should try it to see what happens. Above all, keep the lines of communication open and remember who you wake up with every morning. ;-)
2006-12-11 13:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3some, group sex is a kind of the open sexual relation. Majorities of people disapprove of open sexual activity. Threesomes are not like regular sex, they require both imagination and sensitivity. If you plan on having a threesome, you need to go into the situation with some idea of what you're going to be doing. You're going to have sex with two persons and all three of you have your own rules and limits, so understanding and respecting each other's comfort levels should be a top priority. Each woman may suddenly feel jealous, so keep in mind that the object of the game is to share sex between three people. And don't get so excited that you lose track of the women: all three of you should be sexually satisfied and even if you achieve climax first, you must do everything you can to bring your two partners to orgasm.
There is no guarantee that you will try and stop it, most likely if both will like it you will repeat experience. If only one will like it what will prevent him or you to try it again with the remaining spouse suspicious and feeling hurt. Do not open a pandora box.
Keep it better in the fantasy cloud.
2006-12-11 21:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would wast our time if you are that dumb then you don,t deserve a wife I hope she leaves you by the way if you make her do this she has left you any way I feel sorry for her your not a man your a little boy who thinks it,s all right to take his wife down this road
2006-12-11 20:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say check the internet, have been talking to this girl for a while and she looks online for other bi women to be with her and her husband.
2006-12-11 20:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldnt your wife be asking this question, look like your more interested lol. dont do it, your marriage will fall apart.
2006-12-11 20:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The women should discuss it swinging is a womens domain... I know some good swinging websites.. email me i will tell you
2006-12-11 20:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by susiefila 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
swinging is great for sex in the short run then usually ends up in divorce .. esp when she finds some one in bed who is better than you
2006-12-11 20:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i just come an see ya wife?
2006-12-11 20:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a sick mind dude!
2006-12-11 20:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by Fantasy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the sick in the head club !
2006-12-11 20:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋