Why is it i can only orgasim during oral sex? I also have a problem getting "wet" my Bf doesn't think im turned on but thats not the case i really can't get "wet" could this be because i had an abortion? even though it was 5 years ago?
2006-12-11 12:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You only orgasm through oral sex because that's when the clitoris is directly stimulated. It's not directly stimulated through intercourse, so a lot of women can't come from just that.
I don't know about the wetness and abortion thing. There's always lube.
2006-12-11 12:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by anon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that may not inevitably your fault. you probably did not clarify the kinds of stimulation you're receiving. some women folk purely take longer to orgasm and admittedly, he won't be doing some thing dazzling. Tighter or looser surely has much less to do with a woman's orgasm than maximum human beings think of. Stimulation to the clitoris, G-Spot, U-Spot, and foreplay have the main to do with orgasms than how tight you're. If he provides oral stimulation for half-hour on the clitoris and U-Spot on the same time as utilising a finger to hit your G-Spot and you nonetheless don't have an orgasm, you will possibly could see a doctor to alter your drugs!!(LOL)
2016-10-18 03:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems very likely that you need to be aroused for a longer time. It takes some quite a while. If you guy goes about it the right way, it will get him much more cranked up while he gets you cranked up.
Can't think having had an abortion could affect your ability to become aroused.
2006-12-11 12:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt have anything physically to do with the abortion-but maybe mentally it could.most women dont orgasm by sex-but the pre-sex messing around. Try alot of fooling around-minimal oral and then sex-try to get in the turned on mind set ahead of time.dont sweat it-your pretty normal
2006-12-11 12:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just get too tense during penetration. Relax and tell him exactly what you are feeling and what you want. Try anything and everything : ) Also, every women's natural lubrication varies. That's why lubes were invented.
2006-12-11 12:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Horsetrainer89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a medical question ask the doctor
2006-12-11 12:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by secret love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR EITHER TOO OLD AND GOING THROUGH METAPOLS
OR U JUST NEED TO BE MORE KIMKY.
THINK OF SOME DIRTY THOUGHTS IT ALWAYS WORKS
OR USE SOME OF THAT KY WARMING LIQUID IF IT DOSENT MAKE U *** WITHIN 15 MINUTES SEE A GYNACOLOGIST
2006-12-11 12:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mo H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU ARE NOT NATTILY WET FROM FOREPLAY -TRY A LUBE-MORE CLIT STIMULATION BEFORE PENETRATION --G-SPOT --
2006-12-11 12:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋