Right now I am confused about what I am. When I was 10 years old I started to fantisizing about guys and when I was 11 I started masturbating to pictures of guys and I always would stare at guys for some reason throughout my teenage years. I do get erections around guys but when I look at girls I really don't get much of an erection I love fantisizing sex with guys and I get really turned on by it. I have been fantizing about girls ever since I've been confused and I really don't get turned on by them. I do like looking at naked pictures of girls but when I do that, I really don't get much of an erection, one does try to form but it only forms a little. I am 17 years old by the way. So am I bi, gay or straight.
2006-12-11 11:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by steven s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It does sound as though you may be gay, which is truly nothing to be ashamed of or worry about. Sexual preference is, I think, far more fluid than most people seem to realize or acknowledge, and many people have strong gender preferences without falling solidly into either category. If you're essentially trying to force, due to the pressures of expectation, an attraction to females that simply isn't there, just remember that there's hardly anything worse then struggling to be something you're not.
2006-12-11 12:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dorian V. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I presume that you're a male and when you're then i visit inform you that i have had an same cursed urges all my existence. I want women, yet there are some adult males that purely turn me on. no longer many, concepts you, yet they're there. the in problem-free words problem is, at the same time as i'm surrounded by straights my gay urges look to burn up. it truly is in problem-free words at the same time as i'm in a gay surroundings that I look to get eye-catching round particular adult males. I got here to the end that its the ambience as a lot because the guy that flips my swap. So from time to time I somewhat ought to make a pilgrimage into long island or i go nuts. it truly is been years when you consider that i have made the trek and immediately, i'm certifiable.
2016-11-25 21:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are most probably gay, since you seem to be turned on naturally by men but have to make an effort to be aroused by women. However, sexuality is not set in stone and it's a fluid thing, so you could find yourself attracted to a woman one day. Or you might always be attracted only to men. You don't have to define yourself, but from what you've written here you seem to be to a very large extent, if not totally, gay.
2006-12-11 11:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by probablestars 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We wouldn't know, you'd have to figure it out yourself. But it's ok, some people take a very long time before they finally figure it out. Get to know yourself better. Being gay doesn't mean you are always *sexually* attracted to the same gender. On the other hand, being sexually attracted to the same gender doesn't always make you gay. It's about who you love. Then there's also that possibility of being bi, but we wouldn't know. You'd hafta find out which gender you feel most comfortable with
2006-12-11 12:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know, go date a girl. Then, go date another gay (preferrably gay). Compare your feelings, and decide for yourself. Um, and, whats an erection????? I always hear my friends (guys and gurls) talk about it, and when I asked them, they get this like "Omg! You're this old, and you still don't knoe!" and I knoe that it's something about a guy's body, and I just reply that I'm not a guy...
2006-12-11 12:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. that pretty much sounds gay to me. have you ever been with a girl? How did you feel? Idk, i think you're most definitely gay. and thats totally cool =). And about looking at pictures of naked girls, i think thats kinda pressure/ society that you feel like you should be turned on by them, but ur just not...i hope that helps!
ps do u have any gay friends? try talking to them, or meeting some gay ppl...that might help!
2006-12-11 12:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. But I think that sometimes people can get excited about things that seem "wrong" or different. I don't think it makes you gay or bi. But only you can decide that. Just keep in mind whether your personal beliefs would be compromised by being homo- or bisexual. Then take it from there.
2006-12-11 12:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by ejc_360 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gay to me. But just know you're not really obligated to label yourself.
Sometimes it is hard to see what people see in girls since they're very pretty but to me personally, they exude almost no sexuality so it's hard to get 'turned on' by them. But that's what makes everybody different.
Happy gay-ing. =)
2006-12-11 12:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the only pictures and fantasies that truly arouse you are those of guys, It would appear that you are gay.
2006-12-11 11:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say gay according to your details because you noticed guys through out your teen yrs.
2006-12-11 12:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by YodaYoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋