THis is a serious question. I think my friend is being abused by his parents. Actually i know he is. He told me yesterday. HE told me not to tell but i know i have to. I dont feel comfortable tlking to my parents or a counseler cuz it just feels wierd. I do trust my science teacher and social studies teacher from last year. Should i talk to them since i dont feel comfortable tlking to parents or counceler????? And since i dont see them everyday should i email them and tell them or email them and set up a time to tlk???
2006-12-11 11:47:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to one of the teachers you trust as soon as possible. Try to go by their classroom before or after school, in between classes, or during your lunch. If they seem busy, then just explain to them that you'd like to come back by at a better time because you need to talk to them about something important. Trust me when I say they will MAKE the time to talk to you. Believe it or not, most teachers will go out of their way to help whenever a student is in danger. You are very wise & mature for knowing that you have to let someone know about your friend's situation. I really hope things work out for the best... remember to be there for your friend b/c things are going to get rough for him before they get better. Hang in there... and be there for him, no matter what. Good luck!
2006-12-11 11:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can definitly talk to those teachers that you are comfortable with. If you don't want to use your friends name when talking to them, don't. Set up a time to be able to speak with them though.
Also, go to your local Social Services Dept or Child Protective Services and report this immediately. You can remain anonymous when reporting it to them. I know he said not to tell anyone but since you know it's the right thing to do, then do it. It may be hard but it will be the best thing for him! A report will be filed and an investigation will be done. Yes he may be taken out of the home and hopefully put into another family members home to get away from the abuse.
I wish you and your friend the best and hope all works out too! God bless and Happy Holidays!
2006-12-11 20:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by kerrberr95 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone, so I vote the ones you feel comfortable with. This is definitely something an adult will need to help with to contact the correct agencies. The unfortunate part is even if you do report the abuse, nothing may ever come of it, so just be prepared for that option. If that happens, maybe you can help find your friend a place to stay (like you maybe or another friend) and help him get emancipated. I hope your friend gets the help he needs, and good for you that you have the GUTS to get help for your friend. He might get mad at you, but you have to do what you KNOW is right. Good luck sweetie!
2006-12-11 19:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your parents? (Can you?) If not, go to the police station and talk to an officer. State your case, that is what you believe to be true and the reasons why. Be honest with him, and don't hesitate to tell him how you feel about doing this. He will put an end to your friends abuse and he may be able to keep your involvement between you and he. Listen, sometimes the hardest thing to do is the right thing to do, in fact, that's usually the case! Good luck!
2006-12-11 19:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to report this if your friend is not going to tell. His life is at stake and his safety is more important than you being uncomfortable telling an adult. If you don't encourage him or tell someone, something bad could happen and you will feel really guilty for not helping him. I have seen abuse cases alot and the kids that eventually told were really glad they did because some of them were a beating away from death.
2006-12-11 19:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by krw65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When talking to someone about abuse, it is best to talk one on one. Email or letter is better than not saying anything at all, but when you chat one on one, it gives them the opportunity to ask questions. This means a telephone call or in person. In person is better because they may not associate the name with the face depending on how well they know you.
2006-12-11 19:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES u need 2 talk 2 sumbody.ur friend might be afraid 2 say sumthin but if ur frind is in danger then somone needs 2 know.even i ur friend doesn't want 2 be ur friend anymore you won't have a friendship if ur friends parents end up killing him
2006-12-11 19:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by cherri_chicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....teachers ARE mandated reporters.
2006-12-11 19:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL SOMEONE!!!! FAST CUZ THIS COULD GET WORSE!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 19:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by jamey m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋