They haven't found out yet and I have a feeling when they do, I will lose all of my privelages if not worse. Are there any suggestions about a way to make it not as big a deal? PLEASE HELP!
2006-12-11 11:42:41 · 35 answers · asked by f16pilottmo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SELL YOUR 2006 325I SEDAN OR LET THEM HAVE IT UNTIL YOU PAY THEM BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
give them the money u have left and then start pawning some stuff or sell your car.....get a payday advance
i hope they beat your azz....that was totally wrong...
I HOPE THEY DIDNT GO CHIRSTMAS SHOPPING FOR YOU YET!
2006-12-11 11:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell them before they find out. You need to be honest and show some remorse towards them. Let them be angry and let them decide what punishment is suitable. It is a big deal because you don't want to get in the habit of stealing and losing the trust of the parents you know you can rely on for security and love. Be honest with them on why you took it, even if you think they will really be mad. They will still love you and still take care of you. I'm a mom I know, Promise them you will pay them back and stand by your word. It is OK to make mistakes but you have to be held responsible for them. You will be fine but be good and honest, trust me, that is the best possible thing you can do. Your parents are the one safe place even when you mess up big time.
2006-12-11 12:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are some places that pay extra. If there's a Kinko's on your city, they pay extra and are many times versatile. Yeah, there are a good type of horror thoughts accessible about Kinko's yet there is crap no remember what the pastime different place of work companies pay extra besides- only a idea. Now, what your dad and mom are doing is trciky because in case you s till stay there and they do no longer ought to allow you and can make you bypass out perhaps they sense thye have a good. even with the undeniable fact that, perhaps you'd be more effective off both chatting with them about giving them money and in go back you're taking care of your own money or agree that you'll take even with quantity out for you with out rationalization in case you stick with their options in the different case. Yep, you're in a bind yet they're preserving you from having to bypass out and from what you're saying you does no longer have any money then both so simplest answer is to make extra money or make an contract with them
2016-11-25 21:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big deal, no way around that. Confess, if you can have the cash in your hands when you do ., but even if you don't have it yet don't delay. If they find out some other way it will be way worse. Take what ever they say like an adult and don't argue. You will be lucky if they trust you. As a parent they will always love you but may not like some of the things that you do.
2006-12-11 11:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by wanabe30 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you tell your parents what you did on your own without them finding out from the mail or someone else.
Yes, you really screwed up and you should pay them back with the interest that is owed against it.
You say it is not a big deal, but I say it is a heck of a big deal doing that to your parents or anyone else.
Do the right thing. You should know what the right thing is without anyone telling you.
2006-12-11 12:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all do you have the legal right to go into there bank account? If you do and if there was no amount limited then you have nothing to worry about. But if not suppose to go into there bank account and did it behind there back you could be in trouble you need to tell them right away. Like today. I don't know if there is a way not to make a big deal about it. But whatever happens you have to suck it up. Because you did the do, and can't undo it now. Tell them your sorry.
2006-12-11 11:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that's...bad.
There really isn't any way to avoid big trouble. However, if you tell them of your own free will, instead of waiting until they find out on their own, you can prevent things from getting even worse.
When you confess to them, give them as much money as you have left, and offer to work off the rest.
If you're old enough, get a part-time job until you have enough money to pay them back in full.
Regardless of what you do, I suspect this will damage your relationship with your parents, but by being mature enough to admit to it - and to take your punishment without complaint - you may eventually redeem yourself in their eyes.
2006-12-11 11:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a low life.... you didn't take money out of their account, you stole it. It wasn't your money to even touch!
"I shafted my parents (theft) out of $1000, how can I get out of trouble before they find out"!
If they have any brains at all........ let's put it this way, can you say BANK STATEMENT. If you were my child and you were over 18 I'd kick your @ss out!
Oh here's an idea..... they should do the same thing to you except a lame butt like you will never have $1000 in the bank!
I left a woman for doing exactly the same thing to me!
2006-12-11 11:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you take the money? Why do you have access to their money? You shouldn't but since you have taken the money out there is something you can do. Tell them why you took the money out in the first place and don't let them find out any other way. If you have any of the money left over give it back to them. Tell them you are sorry for what you did and that you will never do it again. Ask them then to please forgive you and tell them you will pay them back on a monthly basis even if you don't want to do it.
2006-12-11 11:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well it's a pretty BIG Deal...and will probably cause them to bounce some checks..or worse...I'd suggest getting the money BACK into the bank account...ASAP...then telling them what you did...yea you'll lose a lot of privileges, but better to come clean and deal with the consequences now...
2006-12-12 04:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by celeste_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta tell them...seriously. It is bad enough to have a g spot missing from your account but worse still to have checks bouncing all over the place...at about 40. each....jeese..
My question is why would you do that?...I think you do need help, and soon, please get help...it is not normal to steal from the rents, I am sure you had your reasons, but that is where the truth lies, I can only iamagine why you would need a g note...drugs..maybe? You need to talk to the rents, explain why you did it and I will bet you they will completely appreciate the fact that you came clean...good luck..it's not the worst thing in the world, you just need to clean it up.....god bless
2006-12-11 11:56:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋