should i just give up on life i mean nothing is going my way at all?

Question

I have no friends, my fiancee thinks i am to depressed the only thing i do is go to work come home, which by the way i still live with my parents i am 26 and just play video games online thinking that i will eventually meet friends online and all will be well, i have to many bills so i can't go out anywhere and spend money, all i do during the entire week is wonder what is going on how can i change myself what kind of hobbies should i get into all so that i can make friends but for some reason no one wants to be friends with me bc they say they will and i never hear from them again. I can tell you all the things that i like but it will take a bit but i always wanted to start to write but am to lazy to do it or basically anything else for that matter the only thing i want to do is play video games and hope for the best

Answer 1

NO! Don't give up! Yes, things get tough, but there is always a better outlet. You may want to consider getting a therapist, because you seem pretty depressed. Talk with your fiancee about your feelings and you could start up scrapbooking as a hobby. Yes, scrapbooking sounds lame, but it's really fun when you pick out materials and paper and things like that. Good luck.

Answer 2

26 is too young to be thinking like this! If you're having trouble with your money, there are charitable organizations that can help you. And as for nobody wanting to be friends with you, many people your age can be very busy; chances are you need to take the initiative in following up on a potential friendship. If necessary, go to a doctor and find out if you're medically depressed--medications can make a big difference in a case like that.
I hope you feel better eventually.

Answer 3

No you should never give up on life. That's what I thought and.... But no, everybody has a purpose on this planet. Changing yourself is not going to do anything. You should never change yourself, you should always be who you are. Because if you're not who you are when you make friends, then it would even be more of a screw up because it's not who you are, you're just trying to be who you aren't. 26 is young. They always say that your significant other is always your best friend and that they will never leave yourself. And why are you lazy to write? who knows, writing might help you get friends. sometimes people need to get their lazy bums up and do their work or interests besides sitting their and wondering why it's like this, not to be mean to you or offended you with all due respect

Answer 4

i have the same prob. - the video game thing i suck at them. don't give up go some were take some class in college. join a club. you seem as though you have a prob with communication. try to take a drive to the park and get some sun light that always helps me.remember depression is a state of mind and you control your state of mind. if all fails start to hang out with you family around your age. there free and you cant be in your room.

Answer 5

Now you need to realize their is more to life then video games. if you have that much time on your hands, then you can get a second job, and just be out their. What you need to do is work on your self esteem, read some books, and work on you, get out of the rut you are in. A new year is coming in and you need to get a new attitude. Have a great holiday!

Answer 6

I highly recommend you read "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Steven Covey. And no this is not a sales plug this book came out about 20 years ago but is still one of the few books that focuses on core principles of life and charachter.

Answer 7

im a 14 year old who isnt able to get what she wants...
not even once.
everytime she wishes somthing everything opposite happenes.
she has many crushes on people...like normal teen girls.
they all hated me .
i cry and cry and i want to be somthing and snice im ugly they dont pay attention to me.