He left me not knowing for sure if i was or not we go to the same school and we still talk and hang out and have sex. But he doesnt want it and i do but it all kinda up to me he says.
2006-12-11 11:25:28 · 10 answers · asked by Kristin J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
YOU SHOULD KEEP IT AFTER ITS BORN IF YOU DON'T WANT IT YOU SHOULD PUT IT UP FOR ADOPTION BUT IF YOU DECIDE TO KEEP IT JUST PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT THAT WAY HE WILL HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF IT
2006-12-11 11:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend dumped, you're pregnant and he doesn't want to be involved AND you're still having sex with him?
First off, have more respect for yourself and don't let anyone treat you like that. I hesitate to say he's a jerk, because he's 18 and you can't expect a ton of maturity from a guy that age. Same goes for his handling your pregnancy.
This decision is one you will live with for the rest of your life. Go to Planned Parenthood for resources to get you all the information you need. Take a trusted friend to help you through this.
Keep the ex-boyfriend in the loop, but don't count on much support. Remember, whether he knows it now or not, it is a decision that will also affect HIM for the rest of his life. If you have a child, he will hopefully grow up and have a role in this baby's life.
2006-12-11 11:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by eli_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you.. I am 21, and I have two children. (I was 19 when I got pregnant on my honeymoon.) I was with my husband for 4 years before hand... Even though I am young, I would not change anything! My best friend had an abortion at 18, and she regrets it every day of her life.
Just remember that it is your body, it is your decision.. this is not something anyone on here can answer for you
2006-12-11 11:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin B 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
R T
If the guy wants nothing to do with the baby ,and you are intent on keeping it , than you best start proceedings on child support as he sounds like a future runner from his responsibilities
And why are you still "hanging with and having sex" with him , you said you were broke off with this boy , Are you totally irresponsible for your actions ?
2006-12-11 11:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 04:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep it.. but it up to you.. when i was in high school i had few friend that was pregnant when they were 16/17 and they keep they kid... if they relationship didn't work.. why kill baby or give up... but your exbf should be around his kid.. he made it with you.. he should be there.. and watch the kid grow up...... and it seem like your exbf is loser way.. because he made you decide for it.. when it his false and your false...
you talk to him... and make him listen... and it new life...and remember not to put in trash bin... bring to hospital... if you decide you do not wanted it after it out...so the baby can have life then being dead.. on the street...
2006-12-12 10:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by babyg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie before I tell you what I think, I gotta know...WHY DID YOU GET PREGNANT IN THE FIRST PLACE?!! DON'T YOU KNOW THAT'S WRONG!! I'M SIXTEEN AND EVEN I KNOW BETTER THAN TO DO SOME STUPID STUFF LIKE THAT!! Now I think you should keep the baby and get HIM to pay the child support.
That's all for now.
2006-12-11 11:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly i dont beleive in abortions but im 17 and expecting my first in march and im engaged so i dont have the bf leaving me problem but if he dont want it or to be in the baby life then its his lose hun u have to choose what u wnat to do cause u are going to be the one that lives with the chose for the rest of your life... good luck and make the right decision
2006-12-11 11:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by tiffany c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u'r seriously ready to dedicate 18+ years to a child, have the mental and financial stability to support your child, possibility without help, then do it. but by all means u'r child's father should share in the responsibility (physically and financially) it was part his choice to lay down with you unprotected so he has to accept the consequences!!!
2006-12-11 11:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by lisa t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the baby and be a great single mom. im only 16 and i have twin girls and im a single mom well with the help from my parents but im a great mom. and you can be to just think positive and be the best damn mom you can
2006-12-11 11:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋