me and my husband get into fights all the time and he hits me or hurts me but i feel it is my fault b.c i push him to much and that i should just learn to shut my mouth am i wrong is it really bad for a guy to put you in the hospital hes only put me into a hopsital 7 times.. but he always says he is sorry and he does love me doesnt he??? my family told me if i dont get help they are outta my life for good that they cant watch him kill me.. please help me
2006-12-11 11:08:32 · 19 answers · asked by Beth m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have kids together and he has made it very clear if i leave i cant take the kids, and i dont want to lose my kids but i cant keep getting hit either, it is my fault that i am getting hit for not listening yes he has put me in the hospital but i deserved it.. i dont want to see my family crying over it no more what can i do..
2006-12-11 11:48:21 · update #1
Why do you hate yourself so much?You must go to a shelter .They are very good places to recharge your batteries and find your way out of this mess.You need to leave because you are torturing your family.They are at the end of their rope.You k now what his Sorry means?It means please forgive me so Ican hurt you some more, The man is evil and he will kill you.Be strong leave now.When you go to the grocery store where ever go to the shelter.Dont worry about your stuff money or clothes just try to have your license or a photo Id.I will pray for you.Please get away from this monster. Nobody has a right to hit you ever.I once tryed to help a girl like you she keep making excuses as to why she wouldnt leave it was christmas ect.In the end The man beat her child till he had swelling on the brain and went into a coma.Now Hes 6 years old brain damaged cannot swallow , has to eat through a hole in his stomach and he is blind.A man who will beat you will beat your kids.Get out Now.NO MORE EXCUSES.
2006-12-11 11:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUNNI LEAVE HIM!!!! IF HE DOESNT TREAT U RIGHT U CAN DO BETTER THAN HIM!! A MAN THAT HITS HIS LADY AINT NO MAN AT ALL!!!!! HIS A DOG!!!! UR FAMILYS TRYING TO PROTECT YOU, YOU CANT KEEP LIVING LIKE THIS YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING AND FAST!! 7 times in 7 times too much to hurt you. you should'nt belive him when he says his sorry. He's only holding you down. ANd no the hurting may never stop because if he hit you 1 2 3 to 7 times he'll hit you again. Do not do this to yourself. Leave Him!!!!
2006-12-11 11:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by Hollow ✌ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get the hell outta dodge...7 times? are you crazy or just love the pain? Your family is right, if you stay he will show you what the words "till death do us part" really mean. There are many ways to show a person love or that your sorry, beating some1 isnt 1 of them. I suggest you pack some stuff and go be with your family. Get a restraining order. I hope you make it out of your situation.
Watch Lifetime or lifetime movie network. they show alot of true stories on battered women and how to get out of your situation.
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 11:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by krazyyybiotchh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl are you crazy!!!...he sent you to the hospital 7 times and your still with him...you have to leave him as soon you can....even if you have kids you have to do it for your kids to.....because your kids are going to be traumatized....i know a lot of people that have been in the same situation that you are in....and believe me if he really loved you he wouldn't put one hand on you....I'm sorry but you really have to leave him even if you love him...and don't blame your self.....because no matter What he has no reason to hit you....and i don't think he can keep your kids....i don't think they would let him because he hits you....and he might hit the kids to......so i don't think they would allow him to keep the kids.....he is no good for you.....just move on with your family and kids.....and you should really listen to your family that really cares about you.....because all their doing is looking out for you....
2006-12-11 12:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by worried 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is right! My dad told me about his sencless beatings from his dad. he would take out a horsewip and beat him.he's 50 somting and still has scars. My great grandpa hospitalized a guy. The Bible says that a woman should not be scard nor cut(that means beaten)
Even I got a sencles beating or two. talk to your grand parents...they know more!!!
2006-12-11 11:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is right. NO- he doesn't love you; he thinks he owns you You don't abuse someone you love- period. He is weak, and must be in control of someone in order to feel strong. He uses you; he must degrade you, make you totally dependent, because he knows he isn't good enough to keep a partner based on who he really is. The guy is trash. Ask your family to help- and DUMP the jerk. Better yet, send him to jail.
2006-12-11 11:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by pegasusaig 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are crazy why are you still with him you should never let him hit you like that especially send you to the hopital and you family members are right they should leave you because it hurts them to see you in pain besides what are they suppose to do you really need to kick him to the curve because he is just going to keep hitting you
2006-12-11 11:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW!!! If he really truly loved you he would NEVER EVER put his hands on you. This man just needs someone bigger than he is to show him what it feels like to be a punching bag.....any takers?
2006-12-11 11:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, just leave him. Someone who really loves you should never hurt you.
2006-12-11 11:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by stratocaster lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family is telling you right....get out now before he kills you and another thing it is not i repeat it is not you fault so don't let him tell that it is my prayers are with you
2006-12-11 11:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋