scince my best friend said that he loves me [and i love him] we haven't been able to talk as much in private as we would like to. everytime we try to talk, one of our friends will butt in on the convo. and i feel so lonley all of the time when i can't see him. it's just like a really bad lovesick feeling. is this normal
2006-12-11 10:33:34 · 12 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yea, it seems normal... remember by being apart could make your love more greater for each other. I know that happens with my husband and myself- really now we aren't apart that much, but when we first dated, and he went to his family's homes for Christmas (we both live in different directions- My parents live 2 hrs away, and his live 4 hrs away from where we live, so this was tough especially during the holidays)... anyways, being away for 3 days- the most we've been away from each other, it was very hard, and it made us appreciate one another even more. If you two are in a deep convo and a friend butts in, be kind, but say can I talk with you a little later? Now don't cut your friends out, but if you honestly can't get any alone time because of friends always cutting in, then maybe even make a set time that you two are together each day... that way your friends know it's time for you two, and then the rest of the time they can have all of the time with you.
Goodluck.
2006-12-11 10:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, babydoll, you're in love. Its perfectly normal to feel that way.
However, you have to function through it, and not sit around feeling hopeless and miserable every time he's apart from you.
Dating is learning how to be married. This is where you learn skills you'll need for long term relationships. You should practice setting aside time for the two of you to be alone each day. Whether its just on the phone, or walking home from school. Any relationship needs that, including friendships, and romantic ones.
2006-12-11 18:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, it's normal. I usually feel like that whenever I date somebody, just because I don't have as much freedom and it seem slike you are in the spotlight way to much. You just have to get through not being able to see him though, because sometimes you may have to go on like that for a while.
2006-12-11 18:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah thats normal dont worry.
2006-12-11 18:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh, its normal, but let your friends in on the secret. Explain to them that when its just the two of you, they need to keep their distance and respect your time to be together.
2006-12-11 18:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats completely normal. you should try to get away from your friends and spend some time with just you and him.
2006-12-11 19:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by maryy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... i mean where i tell a girl thats my friend that I like her... everything changes... eventually it will get back to normal
2006-12-11 22:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by mina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it is a normal feeling.
2006-12-11 18:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by cool nerd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal
2006-12-11 18:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-12-11 19:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by kat_cat_dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋