Good lord, I miss sex! My girlfriend and I have been together for about six months, and we have only had sex once! The problem is that she lives in a one bedroom apartment and has a daughter. Most of the time, she has her daughter with her, so there is no way to we can do it. When her daughter is at her dad's house, we usually have errands to run, etc. I MISS sex so much, but I love her, so I'll never cheat. We almost had sex last weekend, but I didn't have any protection, but I didn't mind so much. We got to sleep in the same bed and were very intimate with one another despite not having sex. Sleeping together is awesome! I wish we lived together. In July, we might move in together, but we are still not sure. We are so close, and having sex only once in six months, but still having passion for one another reinforces the fact that our relationship will probably stand the test of time. Also, I love her little daughter so much. Okay, I just felt like rambling, but I miss sex
2006-12-11 10:19:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like there is more to this on her end. I hate to say it but this is not natural. It sounds like she really isn't into sex. Some people just aren't. Offer to pay a good babysitter for the daughter and take your girlfriend away for the weekend. If you don't have sex then, forget it. You have been the soul of patience and consideration.
2006-12-11 11:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by chicagowoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No excuses... ALWAYS have protection with you, then you won't miss opportunities for THAT reason.
I am glad you love her, and moving in may not change much if she still shares a room with her little girl, so get the lotion and take care of business for yourself until a better situation arises.
Also think of what you are teaching this little girl by sleeping over, playing around with her mom and possibly having sex within her line of sight or earshot... you need to think of the emotional development of the little girl, too.. so while you still have your own place, masturbation is key!
2006-12-11 18:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to hear how you respect your girlfriend...Maybe you could make plans for a few hours when her daughter is at her dad's. Make it romantic, be sure u have protection, plan a intimate dinner, bubble bath, etc...Sometimes u just have to some what plan for it.
As for me, yes, I miss sex...Seperated for 7 weeks now, going thru divorce...Don't necessarily want to have sex with my soon to be ex but I do miss the fun!!
2006-12-11 18:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missing sex is fine...but I applaud that you are both so in love and not having the chance to have sex has not changed that. Stay in love...it is the most important part!
2006-12-11 18:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a great guy and she's lucky to have you. maybe you could do more planning for when her daughter is gone, make it a date night or something. have you told her how much you miss her? talk to her, you two will work it out.
2006-12-11 18:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by inluvwithb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her you should be able to wait. My hubby has been in jail for 3 years and I havent' had it nor will I until he comes home. It's all about love and patience.
2006-12-11 18:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one misses sex as much as you.
2006-12-11 19:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always have protection, perhaps a sitter,maybe a sleep over.
2006-12-11 18:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by explorer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfriend. Cause rosey is gonna get sick of you too.
2006-12-11 18:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_melisa72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love her there are other ways to have sex.just come up with something creative.
2006-12-11 18:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by mom0195 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋