i caught her as i was opening the door to sneak up on her and scare her (she was supposed to be studying and her desk faces the opposite wall) with this boy her age (i remember his face, me and my sis are identical twins in the same grade) and she didn't see that i caught her. what should i tell her? what should i tell an adult or someone else?
what would YOU DO?????!!!
2006-12-11 10:09:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
the boy was not supposed to be there...i think he snuck through the window becasue her room is on da 1st floor and it was cold outiside she wouldn't have it open for any other reason other than to let something in
2006-12-11 10:22:16 · update #1
tell her to tell your mom or you will... she is way to young and what if she didn't use any protection and she ends up pregnant? :o)
2006-12-11 10:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all i'm going to say 13 years old is way to young to be haveing sex. I would talk to your mom hopefully she wont throw a fit. I think the best bet is for your mom to have a 1 on 1 sex talk with your sister. make sure she knows about condoms and how to use them if shes going to be sexualy active she should probably go to a doctor and talk about some form of bith control its bad enough that shes haveing sex at 13 you dont want her to become a mother at that age too. If you don't think your mother is the right person to be talking to about this then maybe you have an aunt or someone like that that you can trust. I would talk to your sister. tell her that you walked in on her and her friend haveing sex. encourage her to talk to your mom or maybe an aunt. At her age she shouldnt be studying with a boy in her room with the door closed. she should be in the liveing room or at the dineing room table. I hope this helps out a little. and please dont be afride to talk to an adult about your sister.
2006-12-11 10:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone. She will hate you and you will probably feel bad about it and regret it for awhile, but I did the same thing she did at her age and now that I look back on it I wish someone had maybe told my parents or something. Kids that age are just too young. Do the right thing.
2006-12-11 10:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by xocharlixo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie....
you don't only need to tell your sister, bur your parents as well; that's going to show how much you care about her.
Think about this.....
1.- She is extremely young to be having sex
2.- She doesn't know is the "boy" has been doing it with some other girls, and imagine the kind of diseases she can get
3.- What if she gets pregnant!
Is she going to be able to handle that huge package.
Please don't stay quiet!!
Say something SOON!!
2006-12-11 10:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Feisty B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell an adult. Not yet, at least.
First, you've got to have a talk with her sister and tell her that you know. Also ask and make sure that she's at least having safe sex, because it would be terrible if she became pregnant or caught a disease. Then, advise her to tell the parents about it.
2006-12-11 10:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ark 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, this is not surprising, but she is too young. I hope someone has spoken to her about this a long time ago, but if not, the first step would be to sit down and talk with her about it. She doesn't have to know immediately that you caught her, but you do need to talk with her. Oh wait, I mean your mom, you're too young to talk to her about it.
2006-12-11 10:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Aloofly Goofy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell on her because thta is not prper for a girl of age 13 shouldn't do stuff like that.
2006-12-11 10:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin Wu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it ask her if she thinks she is definitly ready explain the risks tell her to wait if she gets upset than tell an adult she can catch an std or something else
2006-12-11 10:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's sad. you should talk to her about it. tell her that she's too young, i'd be more aware of what she does because nowadays people are having sex at a younger age. its sad to see the world like this
2006-12-11 10:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Alucard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing's first - you shouldn't tell her anything - you should ASK her if she used a condom - and if she said yes to the boy - and if she knows whether or not the boy has any diseases...
And it is not your place to tell an adult - you should tell your sister that if she wants to be safe, she needs to tell your parents.
good luck.
2006-12-11 10:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by tiff_scifi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell an adult she is way to young and if she does not know about contraception she could be putting her life at risk.As a sister your looking out for her.
2006-12-11 10:32:57 · answer #11 · answered by Sherzade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋