What am I?

Question

Bi, straight? Heres about me.

I'm 12.
I think I like my best girl friend.
I don't have a problem with gayness.
I am attracted to guys just not many.
I've never really liked a girl before but as i said ahead i think i like my friend
My family is really religious and my dad preaches to my family.
I don't agree w/ my dad.
I skateboard.
I have no problem going up to a guy and asking him out.
I like semi tight revealing clothes.

You may think this is stupid but I'm curious.

Answer 1

You're bi-curious...for now.

Answer 2

You could be Bi but it might be too early to tell.

I read awhile back that over 50% of kids, the ages of 10 to 14 have had or thought about a sexual experience with their same sex.

To really know for sure, just wait about 4 years. You'll know a little bit better by then.

Whatever you feel is your prefference is ok.
That still means you're normal.
Just don't fret about it. Don't worry.

Besides that, it may just be a passing thing. It's normal at your age.

Answer 3

hi hun,

it's ok to be a little confused at 12. you're at an age where you are just starting to figure out what it feels like to have a crush and develop feelings like that

it may be to early to determine whether you are straight, gay, or bi. you don't have to rush into any judgement on yourself.

just go with the flow and allow your imagination to run wild.. the feelings youi have for your best girlfriend might just be love as a friend. but maybe it will be more. hard to say.

at 12, you don't (or at least you shouldn't) be thinking about love or sex.. at least not yet..

the fact that you are attracted to guys is good too.

the best news is that you seem to be open-minded and are willing to accept everybody.

thanks for sharing your question, ...and ignore the stupid answers that some of the others are giving you.

Answer 4

Just because you skateboard and wear revealing clothes doesn't make you gay, bi, straight, or really anything. Do not label yourself too hastily, since you're still growing. Most people go through a sexually experimental phase during puberty. It doesn't mean you have to start having sex, but you might feel attractions for the same sex as well as the opposite one. This does not say that you're bi, it just states that you like sex and you want to find out what turns you on. Having a girl-on-girl fantasy is normal for straight girls, so you should wait-and-see. You might be bi, but you might just as easily be straight. It's too soon to tell!

Answer 5

Sweetness, you're probably not going to like this but you are *very* young yet, despite what you think but Mom will give this one a shot.
1) Of course you like your best girlfreind. That's natural.
2) You're part of the next generation that will have little to no problem with gayness. Congratulations
3) It's normal to be not attracted to boys and more to girls at your age.
4) Again, of course you like your freind but lets try to keep sex out of it . You are still a little too young for it. Your body isn't mature enough.
5) If you want another faith, go seek out the one that feels the best to you. Just realize your family is going to give you flack on it. I happen to be a happy Pagan.
6) You're not always going to agree with your Dad, just give him the respect he deserves. He does love you.
7)Cool, you skateboard. I've always been terrified to get on those things.
8)You should NOT be asking boys let alone guys out at your age. That's just inviting trouble and even though you think different you are not mature enough for sex. Please don't let yourself get hurt.
9) A little less revealing clothing would be better. Please don't try and take after the teeny-boppers who are baring everything. It's not respectable and gives a bad impressiopn (yes, I know everyone is doing it)

You are NOT stupid. You're a little girl trying to become a young woman and I applaude you for asking. Good luck, my dear and Blessings.

Answer 6

your 12 and your normal and you need to grow into however God made you.Your going through one of the most exteme changes human bodies have wait until puberty is over to make life choices. Listen and respect your father he is your father and you live under his roof. If you disagree do it with respect it only makes your life harder not too. when your an adult you can be what you want to be. Dont try and grow up too quick it a 12 year old in tight clothes does not look sexy or sophisticated she looks cheap and unloved. I dont want to sound cruel but its the truth. Love your self your inner self and then dress to show the love and respect you have for yourself that includes respect for yourself as a human not as a object. Not as you want others to veiw you its about who you are as a human.
Moslty remember, I can say I speak for God,it does not mean I do, and if you think your father is wrong It does not mean God is wrong. Dont stop trusting God he loves you the way He made you and I bet your wonderfull. Maybe one day you will remember what your father said and change your mind. Keep and open mind even to closed minds they can be great teachers too.

Answer 7

I'm 12 too, I think I like my friend, I don't have a problem with gays, I've only liked another girl, and I'm niether/nor on the rest. You're probably curious, like me. However I don't care much about genders, so it's easier to assume I'm bisexual in the long run.

Don't rush it though, you'll find yourself someday. I just wish we didn't have to wait so long. >>

Question though, how do you feel going up to a girl and asking her out?

E-mail me if you want to talk. ^^

Answer 8

You will see in the next years how things develope. You are 12 and just because you may feel like you have a little crush on your girlfriend doesn't mean you are gay or bi.

Answer 9

Well,since your only 12..... I am sure that your horomones are just beginning to go crazy. You will probably think about all kinds of crazy stuff. If you like guys and girls,then your bisexual. Nothings wrong with it. Personally I think your too young to have sex with anyone,but if your prefrence is girls,thats fine,just wait until your a few years older and wait for someone special.

Answer 10

You're 12. That's what you are. When you get older, things will become more clear.

Answer 11

You're only 12, you don't have to worry about that stuff just yet. You'll figure it out eventually