i'm a virgin and ii'm planning on having sex. does it really hurt and is it normal to bleed, if so how much
2006-12-11 09:20:30 · 14 answers · asked by maryy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i'm a virgin and ii'm planning on having sex. does it really hurt and is it normal to bleed, if so how much
i'm 16, almost 17, and i've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. thanks for your opinions on waiting till your ready but i was more curious about physical effects
2006-12-11 09:39:55 · update #1
It might hurt a little, and if you bleed it just means you broke your hymen..TOTALLY NORMAL. Just please please please, remember to use protection of some sort. Plus most condoms are lubricated so that will help it not be painful.
2006-12-11 09:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Becca P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, before I answer your question I just want to tell you that I think you shouldn't be having sex at such an early age because I think you need to wait because your virginity is a special part of you. It is you losing a part of you just to get a good sensation, don't give into the temptation no matter who tells you that you should. When you decide to give yourself to a man who will love you for you and thinks of himself as you and you as him, you'll feel better. Honey, wait until marriage and don't even talk to people who speaks on this subject. Separate yourself and believe in you and what you this is Right.
Second of all, Yes it will hurt your first time and blood can be normal especially at age sixteen.
2006-12-11 18:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain should only come from the tearing of your hymen. The amount of blood will depend on how much tearing occurs. You may have already stretched or torn it through sports or tampons. You can actually manually stretch it yourself ahead of time if you're concerned about the pain (one less thing to worry about!) You shouldn't have pain from him being inside you, if there is, you need more lubrication. Hope you found a trustworthy guy and be carefull!
2006-12-11 17:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Maren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time having sex for women is usually uncomfortable, and for some is fairly painful. Don't worry, it gets better. Some bleeding can be normal, usually not more than spotting. Any more than that should be reported to your OB/GYN.
2006-12-11 17:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it hurts like hell, and u do bleed...however bleeding depends on a number of things mostly if u play sports and are very active...because i was told playen sports "loosen you", if u bike ride alot the seat can "pop ur cherry" and u wouldnt even know it... so it all depends on your activity level. but yes i wont lie, it hurts...well it did hurt me..a friend of mine bled like a sob but it never hurt... i hardly bled and it hurt... so ya...make sure u have shitty blankets and stuff under u just in case..and remember to be safe,u dnt need any unexpected packages arriving in the next lil while...
if u have any other questions u can go to your health nurse @ school, or a family member!
best wishes to you...
and have fun;)
2006-12-11 17:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it hurt me about the first 6-7 time i had sex. then it stopped. you don't always bleed afterwards, but some women do. if you do, it will just be like spotting, nothing heavy.
be safe :)
2006-12-11 17:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♥sweet♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... it's uncomfortable so make sure that your partner loves and cares for you.
My question would be how old are you? Married? Boyfriend? Are you sure you're ready?
Advice= use protection, be careful and be sure you don't want to regret something that should be beautiful. Good luck!
2006-12-11 17:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by whitney h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? if you aren't the legal age get your hormones under control. As for the bleeding it happens but how much you bleed can vary.
2006-12-11 17:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by school_girl007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should wait you might regret it in the long run!
2006-12-11 17:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by $$$$$$ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
use protection. it might hurt a little but it shouldnt be too painful
2006-12-11 19:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋