Can a male experience a sexual encounter with the same sex but, no longer have those feelings anymore?
2006-12-11 09:16:35 · 17 answers · asked by fashionista 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
having an experience doesn't necessarily mean someone is gay. if they're curious and have an experience but no longer harbor the curiosity or the desire they were not gay to begin with, so in that case yeah.
2006-12-11 09:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Those are different questions.
Lots of boys and men have sex with other boys and men for fun and aren't gay. They don't have "feelings" other than friendship and a desire to have a form of sex rather than just jerking off -- and yes, they are not homosexual, so while they might miss the feelings, they can stop having sex with guys anytime they want, and resume or stop it at will.
On the other hand -- a gay person has feelings - romantic, sexual and all other feelings for other members of the same sex and NONE other than friendship for people of the opposite sex.
If you are gay, and only desire other males -- there is nothing you can do to change it, and no it doesn't change naturally, so you can be happy or you can be sad -- but you can't change. If on the other hand you just like to have sex with other males, relax. A gay guy can't become straight and a straight guy can't become gay through having sex. Do it or not as you wish, but its harmless and just adds some pleasure for you. You won't suddenly stop being attracted to girls or something. You can't turn gay.
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2006-12-11 09:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can lose the desire to be gay, but that doesn't mean you will then find the desire to be straight. Your loss of interest in gay life may fade but you surely can not change your orientation. Sexual orientation falls on a spectrum no one is 100% gay and no one is 100% straight. You could be experiencing a normal change in your sexual appetite. or perhaps your experience was a bad one so you have no desire to experience it again. This is normal. You will figure it out over time, give yourself time to find what you really want.
2006-12-11 09:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's actually quite normal for guys to experience gay sex. It's very common, happens all the time, and yet the most Christian of all Christian people won't even admit that they did it. They did! No, it doesn't mean you were gay and then changed your mind. You just don't have a fully developed ego yet, and confused sex with being gay.
Gay means that you have a deep rooted orientation to love or have a long term relationship with the same sex no matter what happens just like a straight person.
2006-12-11 09:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by nations 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-11 09:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by cinderfella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An individual encounter doesn't make a person gay.
2006-12-11 09:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, at any time a person can walk away from the gay lifestyle and never look back. The ex-gay movement if full of people who have happily made the chice to never commit homosexual acts again.
2006-12-11 20:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not heterosexuals loose the desire to be with people sometimes they become gay so why can't homosexuals
2006-12-11 09:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by harmony moon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are those Bi-curious situations. If you enjoyed it at the least or have done it more than once, it might be difficult to suppress those feelings. I hope the best of luck for you although I would never want to change myself--Good luck :)
2006-12-11 09:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋