Umm....I'm confused...BIG TIME!!! All answers appreciated-thanks!?

Question

i recently told the guy i like how i felt abt him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now" & then we talked for more than an hour abt everything & he opened upto me a lot.after that night,he never came online.

the wierd thing was my personal msg said "it's now or never" & as my friend told me his was "are you the now or never kind?",but i think he was on invisible mode.

the other wierd thing was what his best friend told me.he told me that my crush had said that he thought abt me & then he added that when my crush get's beetter"things may happen" & that there's something else too which he doesn't want to reveal.

bear in mind that my crush does speak to me sometimes but it's hard cos it's an awkward situation.the conversation i had with him the night i told him was the best & he was really sweet abt everything.why's he doing this & what is he really trying to tell me?

thanks for all your answers :^)

btw the 'now or never' was part of a song which i like these days,i didn't put that intentionally...

Answer 1

he is just trying to confuse you and see how long yuoull stick around. Do play games like that. if he really is digging you he would be going for it hes just trying to amuse himself. chill on the contact with him and see what he does to keep incontat with u.

Answer 2

He's got all the signs of a man that doesn't want to be involved. Take your fabulous energy and put it toward something or someone that will respond in a positive way. He uses the responses he's using to boost his ego at your expense. "Now or never"? A man who gives a woman ultimatims like that is pretty full of himself and he's feeding his ego off your crush. Honey, take your fabulous energy, thoughtfulness and ability to love somewhere else. Trust me, this never gets easier in a woman's life. You have to have faith in yourself and your ability to love in a healthy and mutual way. Who the heck does he think he is anyway? You're not worth his effort? How about he doesn't deserve your attention. Spin yourself around a couple of times and take a good look. You're the loving, amazing, caring person here and you deserve love that is real and mutual. Don't let yourself compromise.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

tell him, that you don't want to play games and are serious if you really are, he could just playing a game with you and most women don't deserve to be screw with. so if he don't want to hook up, loose him and find another guys, cause they are like fish, plenty of them

Answer 5

that sux @ least u had the guts to tell him unlike i can tell my crush!

Answer 6

just move on like nothing happend....