i have a best friend and she can be like really cool only she can get mad over the littlest things and she will just roll her eyes at me and say rude and really hurtful comments to me and some times they hurt really bad. what should i do?
2006-12-11 09:05:59 · 19 answers · asked by P-Dog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1) Talk to her. When she says those mean things, simply say "
2) Talk to other friends. Does she do this with everyone? She could have a problem and may need to see a specialist. Regardless of the fact, take care of yourself. You don't need that type of abuse. If she gets like that, do what you need to do.
2006-12-11 09:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she's having severe mood swings, maybe she's manic depressant? if you really think it's a problem that's gotten worse lately, then you should talk to her about getting help from a doctor and/or psychologist.
if you don't think this is the case, then the best thing to do is to talk to her about it, and if she doesn't change her ways, then hang out with her less. if she's hurting you really badly by the things she says, then she doesn't sound like a friend to me. you should surround yourself with people who are going to lift you up, not bring you down! just ignoring her comments won't make them go away, and won't make you feel any better about yourself. talk to her about how the things she says are making you feel, and if she doesn't take your feelings into consideration and change how she treats you, then she's not worth your friendship or your time.
2006-12-11 17:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are still friends with her? I know people with mood swings, and some friends, but they don't take it out on me. They find things to do to make them feel a lot better. Friends don't shut friends down, they lift them up. She should recognize friendship. You're probably the only friend she has with that attitude. Talk to her about how she's effecting you, and tell her you want to help her with whatever bothers her.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-11 17:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until she is in a really good mood and then tell her how you feel, tell her(in a loving way) that she hurts your feelings when she says mean things to you and that you don't feel like her friend when she rolls her eyes at you-
if she gets mad when you tell her this that's her problem and you should have confidence because you took the first step and the problem is no longer on you but her- if she is at all understanding then hopefully she will listen to you and try to change her attitude, but it might take some gentle reminders on your part to help her keep a good attitude
2006-12-11 17:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit down with you friend ask her what is on her mind ask if there is any problems that you can help her with dont be always trying to keep her calm it sometimes makes things worse ask why does she do those things tell her when she gets like that she hurts your feelings make sure she knows that by doing that she can lose a really good friend even though you dont want to do that to her make her understand whats going on and how she is acting towards you and anyone esle
2006-12-11 17:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i have a friend like that too, the best thing to do is ask her if something is bothering her, dont be snotty or mean about just say, is something bothering you, you seem upset. if she rolls her eyes again tell her if she wont stop that you cant be friends, this will give her a reality check...if she keeps that crap up she may lose all her friends
2006-12-11 17:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Chlobo♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may feel hurt. maby you have new friends and she feels left out. shes a girl we have mood swings, i have a best friend like her except shes bipolar so its a bit different, but just let her know you care and your always gonna be there sometimes a kind word can brighten any day.
2006-12-11 17:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Bewbies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have 2 choices ignore her rude comments or deal with it
my best friend does that too ijust ignore her comments and we have been best friends for 20 yrs now sometimes it hurts but we never admot eachother is wrong we just know how it is so good luck to ya if yal are true best friends u will get thru this
2006-12-11 17:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by bluitexan20000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she might be bipolar. it;s hard 2 diagnose but the medicine if correct, helps a lot. I would try and get her 2 go 2 a doc. Even if she is not, there is still probably some reason y; hormone in-balance, maby.
2006-12-11 17:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by AC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS WHAT YOU CAN DO TO MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHE IS NOT SPECIAL IN ANY WAY. SHE JUST WANTS THE ATTENTION AND SHE KNOW THAT YOU WILL GIVE IT TO HER 100%. TRY IGNORING HER EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE AND I BET YOU THAT SHE WILL BE WONDERING WHY YOU DO NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION TO HER ANYMORE. THEN YOU CAN LET HER HAVE IT. SHE IS NO MORE BETTER THAN YOU SO TELL HER.
2006-12-11 17:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by JMLT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋