i like this one boy but there is just one slight problem, every1 thinks he's a loser. he is funny and can be annoying sometimes but unlike my other crush he isnt a jerk and is nice to me and makes me laf. i was sitting on the couch in our class with him studying together and my ex friend sez wat r u doing sitting by him anyway in a 'snobby ur an idiot 4 sitting with a loser way'. b4 she made that coment i put it out there that i wasnt going out with my last crush and that he was a jerk and i didnt like him anymore. wat should i do if it gets out that i like him my reputation mite go WAY down. but i reely like him. HELP plz IM me
2006-12-11 09:04:14 · 14 answers · asked by cr8zy_about_b-ball 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sweetie,you like him,if so thats the important thing here.If you are more worried about your reputation,you dont like him very much.If we based our friendships and relationships on what other people thought,more than likely none of us would be making our own decisions on that topic.You need to do what you want to do,not because everyone "THINKS" he is a loser,but because you like him.If you make your decision based on that,then you didnt like him as much as you say you do.Think about what is more important.How would you feel,if you were the one who was not so popular,and he was the one who was popular.What would you want his decision to be?One based on what someone whos opinion means nothing or one based on his feelings toward you?Better yet,what if he did say he liked you and yet again your switching positions here.Then,all of a sudden he didnt like you any more and then you hear from someone that he didnt like you because of someone elses opinion?Think about it hard hun,and i hope you make the decision thats best.Good luck hun,have a good night.
2006-12-11 11:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF ur thinking about your reputation then leave him alone and it means that u don't like him at ol and it is just becos he makes u laf n that's it...if u think hes so stupid after some times every thing will get so normal and u think even hes not so cute muchless about funny or something. well if u want to be his friend just be his friend and not to play around him cos hes a human being he could fall for you n hurting sucha person like this trust me it is not so nice ov you
2006-12-11 17:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older you will find out that reputation doesn't mean much in the real world. Best case scenario, your friends will see your man for what he is and stop thinking of him as a loser. Worst case scenario, you get to be with the man you like and you won't have to be around people who only like you because of your reputation.
2006-12-11 17:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this boy treats you well and you like him, don't worry about anyone else. Be strong and true to yourself. As long as you know you are doing the right thing, you can hold your head high. It's hard not to care what others think, but in the end, it's what you think about yourself and the actions you take, that matters.
2006-12-11 17:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by crazzi12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should care about what people think. If you like this guy you like this guy there is nothing you can do for that.. As for your ex- friend there is a reason why you call her your ex-friend. When she came up to you with that remark it can only mean one thing. SHE IS JEALOUS. So worry about what you think and not other people. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-11 17:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by ivonne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter what others think of him. If he's a great guy deep down then go for it and prove everyone wrong. They're losers for not seeing people for who they really are.
2006-12-11 17:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by LovelyLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him then why dont you just tell everyone else to fu ck themselves and be with him?!
do their opinions really matter as long as your happy?
and if your friends ditch you because you're with this loser guy then they weren't really your friends in the first place.
However if you hold your reputation above it all theh stay away coz if your with a geek then you are a geek.
its your choice, happiness or a lost chance.
2006-12-11 17:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter about what other people think. If you like him stay by his side and dont listen to what your ex friends say. They're probably jealous. As long as your happy and follow your heart you will be okay.
2006-12-11 22:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Questions ^_^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno exactly how u feel the same thing is happening to me rite. me and him hate each other one moment and the next we are cracking up together. ok anyway if u are that worried about ur rep maybe he isnt as important to u as u think.
2006-12-11 20:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dannii™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is what you think, people don't make the decisions in your life, you do. I think you should do what your heart tells you to do. Reputations are jus
2006-12-11 18:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋