sex for the first time?

Question

is there any way sex can be made less painful? would masturbating or fingering help out before having sex? i am kind of afraid that it will hurt too much because it will be my first time, so is there anything that could help me before i do it?
thanks in advance.

Answer 1

You dont sound ready for it, just wait a while until you are!...;

Answer 2

Yes, fingering and masterbation can help becasue that will stretch out your hymen. Sex shouldn't hurt when you can easily insert 2 fingers without pain. Also, use plenty of lube and relax. I know that's easier said than done, but that's key! Also, make sure it's with someone who loves you and really cares for you. Make sure that they know you're a virgin and if they love you, they will go easy and slowly. Do all of these things and it shouldn't hurt at all. Mine didn't.

Answer 3

First time sex and can be pain is a kind pain with relax and comfortable why do you need to masturbate. Just like you never eat hamberger the first time how can you try something ele before you eat hamberger?.

Answer 4

Be very careful, fingering can help take it slowly do not force him. When you are ready relax try some k-y warming jelly. Lubricate your vagina so that penetration is easier. Go slow and easy at first then you and your boyfriend will get a rhythm. Hope this helps lots of luck.

Answer 5

Well you should wait to have sex if you are having anxiety about it still. But it is normal for it to hurt the first time. When you are ready to make that step, just be sure to make your partner take his time and respect your body. Good luck!

Answer 6

take your time do not rush it. masturbating and fingering will help alot. but the main thing is to take your time and remember you can stop it at anytime

Answer 7

no sorry boo he has to break you hemen skin...so its painful

Answer 8

hey just say no