or do you think of it as a "recreational" activity?
I don't have a problem at all with sex before marriage, but I do think sex should only happen with people that actually care for eachother.
call me old fashion.
2006-12-11 08:49:21 · 9 answers · asked by Seven Costanza 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I guess that makes me old fashioned too. Sex is the most special time I spend with my husband.
2006-12-11 09:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do consider it special. And I think I found the reason it is in the Bible not to have sex before marriage. What most people don't know is that during sex, blood is always passed between the two engaging in sex. Literally always. Little cuts and tears show up on the skin involved. They are small enough to not really notice ourselves, but blood always passes.
In Exodus and in Acts, the Bible says the God considers the blood the life of the person. By having sex, and exchanging blood in that way you are literally accepting part of their life into you, and giving some of your own to them. In God's eyes, you are literally becoming one person. You are physically combining yourself as you are supposed to have already done emotionally and spiritually (with the ceremony of marriage). So sex is very special, you are literally (not just figuratively), becoming one person.
2006-12-11 08:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex is a very special thing if you wait. I am waiting for my husband and I plan on showing him that I loved him before I even knew him. And also I don't want my husband thinking that he has to do better than another guy that I don't even think about any more. That's why I'm waiting til my wedding night to have sex.
2006-12-11 08:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by tigerbandgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT special. LOVE, caring and respect are special, 'casual' sex is NOT. Casual sex is not a shared experience it is an abusive, physical assault where you DO something to someone else or use them... you are PERPETRATING an aggressive attack on another. I am not old-fashioned by any means. I am an anarchist so far to the left I enter from the right and I've been around the block more than enough to know.
2006-12-11 08:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by larry s 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nicely, dealing with what i'm seeing at right here (yahoo A), on a daily foundation, it style of feels many individuals are believers in "no intercourse til marriage". yet, then there is likewise plenty who make it sound like intercourse is one among those entertainment relaxing. the top i've got come to is there's a super type. although, I additionally do no longer believe a number of those posts. i think of lots of those posts are bs troll posts that bored morons make up just to create a debate. I additionally bare in suggestions something many others probable ignore... it incredibly is there are over 7 billion human beings on the earth now. And with a super type of folk, you have a super type of distinctive perspectives to boot as many coinciding perspectives.
2016-10-05 04:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old Fashion - I have never had sex of any kind - so I consider anyone who can get it, do it, and have a feeling of coming is just dam lucky - If I could I would get it all time and never stop - Love or no love feelings or no feelings .
Your lucky - DP
2006-12-11 09:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it can be both. It's fun, so why not? And then, when you're serious, it can be very special.
2006-12-11 08:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally agree with you.
2006-12-11 08:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
with love yes its fun too...its both...closeness and giggling are good...
2006-12-11 08:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋