How do you deal with them? Just tell them to fuck off? Or did you realize they were in love with you and you were perfect for each other and you ended up in a relationship that still stands? lol...I think that was a movie...
2006-12-11 08:46:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes--I have a friend who does that. 1.) Make sure you tell them everything that's great about that person and why they're good for you, but just in conversation, not like you're trying to prove them wrong. 2.) Avoid saying anything negative about the person you're with. You might not realize it but if you are having fights/whatever with that person and you confide in your friend, your friend might tend to take your significant others' faults more seriously than you do because they're not in the relationship. So try not to have your friend be your sounding board when your relationship has issues for the time being. Oh, and if it's been awhile and they get to KNOW your sig., tell them to F off. GL!
2006-12-11 09:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by florafall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have many different motivations for telling you "someone is not the right person for you". First, you have to look at the person who's doing the talking. I had a friend who didn't think the man I was dating was good for me. She had pretty good insight while I was blinded by love. Eventually, some of the things she 'saw' I later discovered were true, but I had to find them out for myself. Sure, I could have saved myself some heartache, but who wants to listen to someone who doesn't have a man? It's usually the ones without who are always judging you and telling you what you need to do. I'm glad I lasted through the years. I now have more insight and wisdom about men-folk and cannot be deceived again. Then there are those who are jealous of your relationship and want to see you as miserable as they are. Laugh it off! And enjoy your relationship while it lasts - because we all know that "everything must change" - nothing stays the same.
2006-12-11 08:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a lot of people tell me that the person I was dating was wrong for me. Some of them were right, and I feel bad for not believing them. But some of them just wanted to take the person I was dating away from me. And because I listened to them, they ended up doing it.
I got back at them though, and at the wrong person I was dating.
2006-12-11 08:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Montez Grl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well opinions are like _ssholes, everybody knows one. I have always followed my heart when it comes to dating and relationships. The mosquito I always had in my ear was my mom. No matter how perfect a guy was, she could always find something wrong with him. Her choice in men hasn't been great over the years so I pretty much let her advice go in one ear and out the other.
2006-12-11 08:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned that there are always people that dont think anyone will ever be good enough for you. My father has high standards for me- and if there is one thing he doesnt like about a man I am dating, he still gives him a chance. My family is usually (they have learned) pretty accepting of who I choose to be with. It tends to be friends of mine that are a bit more skeptical about them. IF someone is not right for us, we will have to learn in our own time though and your friends and family need to understand that and allow you to make your own mistakes!
-EA
2006-12-11 08:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand that its not elementary often times, yet you could take action because of the fact its your emotions. i think of that all of us which will provide you those small solutions are fairly lots precise with those small messages. "choose for it!" getting in contact with him could be elementary in case you start up it off sluggish. then you incredibly will discover an possibility as to once you experience tender to tell him the variety you experience. And that takes time. yet once you start to spend a brilliant number of time with him, I assure at that element, he does such as you. you do not even could say something. it could additionally be shown while he tries to kiss you. yet all this might basically happen while the two considered one of you start up spending greater time with one yet another.
2016-10-18 03:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine always used to do that...and she was not in love with me! I think she saw the jerks for what they were. I, of course, ignored her and dated them anyway. Live and learn.
2006-12-11 08:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always some one there to shoot you down, It's like a cycle tell them to sit on a 12 inch dildo and leave you alone
2006-12-11 08:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Xx Slit Wrists & Sorry Notes xX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom, she thinks am 'too young to date' lol. i just ignore her when she starts to 'lecture' me. lately she has come to appreciate my choice in dating my bf so basically yeah, she has backed off
=)
2006-12-11 08:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by §èxÿtà mmý ® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have people like that in my life
2006-12-11 08:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by ... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋