How can I talk to him with out him becoming so defensive and I not feel bad for making him upset if I believe there is something wrong.
2006-12-11 08:07:23 · 2 answers · asked by twt1999brd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start with Honey, Id like to talk.
Be simple, and get staright to the point, and dont accuse. Say it hurts me when you.......or It bothers me because.......
Make sure you dont call names, or lose your temper, stay cool.
Heres one my mom told me, hold his hand when your talking, its harder to get angry when your showing love.
Pick a time when he is relaxed, and in a good mood.
My husbands the same way. After 2 years of HUGE arguments, I learned that those things work the best.
2006-12-11 08:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be logical not confrontational. Talk through things and more importantly then talking.... LISTEN because he probably is trying to tell you something without blurting it out. It sounds like he has communication issues.
2006-12-11 08:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋