I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:
"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???
If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!
She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???
What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???
Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???
For xmas I thought I'd send her a xmas card and a small teddy-just saying merry xmas and happy new year.
Would this be ok??OR Would she throw the card\gift in the bin??
She appreciate it??
2006-12-11 08:03:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We’ve not spoken for over a week (which is a long time for us).Will we EVER SPEAK AGAIN OR IS THIS THE END???Has she had enough of me???Have sent 2 txts apologising-gd or bad?
MORE INFO:
We go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.
2006-12-11 08:04:13 · update #1
My advice is she has been hurt in the past and doesnt want to go that way again. As for anything between you both i would leave the subject and wait and see if she says anything about it.
Dont text her again saying sorry. Text asking how she is and how her day has been and does she fancy meeting up for lunch like you used to go about it!
For xmas i would say that was fine, i think she would appreciate the thought, at the end of the day she trusts you and you are still and seem a good friend to her. she might just need time and space so give her that. also might be abit freaked and never thought of you like that until now.
Go ahead text but dont mention that.
2006-12-11 09:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, you sound too demanding.You want answers to what obviously she is not ready for or just doesn't want from you.Two if you have such a good friendship, why do you want to ruin that and risk of being rejected?I'm sure if she wanted something further that what there is from you,she would let you know or give you a hint. Calm down and take it slow before you annoy her and dump you completely even as a friend.
2006-12-11 08:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by MS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just being rebellious. Doubt she's had much love yet.
Is she a goth?
Show her some love and kindness. Nothing wrong with the card at all. Friends always send Christmas cards.
If she doesn't fancy you, there's not much you can do i'm afraid.
Nothing wrong being there for her as a friend though. Don't lose a friendship because she doesn't fancy you.
2006-12-11 08:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Posting the same question again to get the answers you want to hear won't change anything. I'm sorry but you've really got to leave it to fate.
2006-12-11 08:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS TRYING TO TELL YOU NICELY thanks... but no thanks.. sod it one year down the line you will forget about it or ...take a deep breath and trust in your heart...if you was to kiss her which you have nothing to lose from doing this she will respond in 2 ways ..kiss you back or say bad langauge
2006-12-11 08:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerGeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of NO do you not understand. We told you what to do already!! Leave her alone.
2006-12-11 08:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the present that would be nice
2006-12-11 10:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jo H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋