what do you do?they hate each other!And I cant stand it!!!!!!!!!MY BF AND BEST FRIEND HATE EACH OTHER!!!!?

Question

Well he isnt igzactley my BF but he is close enough.He;s one opf my close guy friends.He always flirts with me and things like that.But he hates my best firnd.And she hates him.I dont want to let either of them go but i'm ALWAYS in the middle of it.She sais he does the things he does to me,he also does the things to her.But i dont know who to believe.I mean,i've known him and her about the same amount of time,but i dont know what to do.I cant just keep out of it.They make me part of it!He tells me she did this,wich i dont know if it is true and she tells me things that he does.But its things that wil get on my nerves.But i never had her say like "I hate him"I just assume.I could realy use some help.Please can you tell me what to do????

Answer 1

I've never had this happen before. Most of my guy friends and girl friends like each other, so they rarely argue like that. But I would suggest talking to them both at the same time. If this is really bothering you, then you should tell them both that it is hurting your friendship. If your best friend is right about him flirting with her too, then you should just stop being friends with him. Some guys have a lot of female friends and they can flirt a lot with all of them. It doesn't always mean they like them as more than friends. Some of my guy friends are like that, but they don't really like any of their female friends as more than friends. I wonder why they hate each other. It sounds like they are trying to get you to stop being friends with the other one, so maybe they are jealous of each other. Either way, the best thing to do would be to sit them both down and tell them you can't be friends with either of them until they/you all work things out.