Anyone think death of marriage in America is sad. Any country with 50% divorce rate is doomed---how about us?

Question

I for one think marriage is not only a great institution, but lack of it creates all kinds of problems--just look at the high wedlock pregneancy rate of young black girls in US. Caucasions are as bad as ******* race, but Asians, who have a much more stable marriage, lead much richer, fuller lives and their kids are not perpetually confused over who to blame for their being pushed and pulled from both directions, not to mention having to deal with half brothers and quarter sisters.

Answer 1

I think it's so sad to look at some of the situations on here with people breaking up marriages for the stupidest reasons and getting into marriages when they don't even know what they want. I think people have the attitude that if it doesn't work they can just get divorced. Anyone who has been divorced can tell you that it's the hardest thing to get over - and maybe you never really do, especially if it was a long marriage or if you have children. It's just not something to do because you're lonely or bored with your life.

What's with all of the sleeping around? Does no one have any respect for themselves? All of these really young teeenage girls on here asking about oral sex and things that they just aren't ready for. I have three teenage daughters myself and I have tried to teach them that making love is a gift that you give, not a recreational activity.

I just don't get it. I'm a 41-year-old woman, good looking and fit. I've had four sexual partners in my WHOLE life - married one and engaged twice. I can't be the only woman who feels that it means something to make love with a man - not just physical lust, but love and passion and wanting to GIVE.

Oh well, there's my rant. I just feel so bad that morals and integrity are so lacking. All we hear about is affairs, divorce and out-of-wedlock births. What is the answer? Maybe it's as simple as personal responsibility and character.

Answer 2

If you reside your existence through information, then you can also become being one. It isn't precise that every body will get divorced. I do not know in which the 50% got here from. Every courting has it is issues - a few become extreme whilst others are usual. If you have been married to a person who beat you or abused you, you could on the whole divorce him, correct? That occurs greater than you understand (the drug/alcohol information up too so.....provides to the issues). If it make you think any greater, I am forty eight years historic and feature been married for 25 years. We've had very severe disorders too - we've got misplaced everyting. Things had been terrible for the beyond 10 years however ya recognize what? We are nonetheless married. With severe issues come headaches. You must paintings at a wedding. I pay attention individuals say "I'm so excited - I'm getting married" and all they're particularly considering is the marriage ceremony itself and the truth that they like to be with this character BUT THEN comes the tough side.. I particularly believe that every body getting equipped to get married will have to move to a few variety of marriage counseling in which probably the most foremost disorders in a courting are introduced up: kids, price range, in-regulation disorders, pets, cleanliness (sure, sound dull however one goes to be pickier than the opposite - small clash). Small conflicts can grow to be enormous conflicts --- it occurs. When all of the playing cards are at the desk in spite of everything those disorders and others are mentioned forward of time (with out simply the fairytale blissful finishing - and it's hardly ever a fairytale) THEN you'll be able to make a well resolution centered to your head and your middle even as. I desire your marriage does paintings. You are headed within the correct path. It is deliver and take one hundred% of the time. We (individuals) don't seem to be continuously inclined to try this. Me incorporated. None folks are best - all of us have flaws. Can you like unconditionally? That is most important. Can you forgive if one makes a mistake? People make errors. Some don't seem to be continuously inclined to forgive - that may devour on the courting for years till it's destroyed. You recognize what you will have to particularly do? Live on a daily basis sooner or later at a time - experience each and every different and do not take each and every different without any consideration, stand through each and every different, speak to and no longer "at" -- every body has an opinion or factor to make and so they need to talk it. We all deserve appreciate - appreciate each and every different. You do not know the way lengthy any one goes to reside - do not believe forty years down the street. If you believe that method, you can fail to spot the NOW. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!!!

Answer 3

This nations has become a throw away country. When the no fault divorce came into being it was the downfall of marriage. There is no such thing as a no fault divorce. Just because you think the grass is greener on the other side , we move on. The kids suffer and then they turn around and have no values and it all starts all over again. Until the vows that are taken when we marry are enforced this nations is going down and going down fast.

Answer 4

"******* race" wtf. i guess you've never spoken in public before and had to string more than a few words together to make a cogent statements and come to a logical conclusion. you started off well enough, but then clouded the issue with race. i don't give a fly f*** on a rolling donut what color you are. f'd up marriages are a bad thing and stable ones are a good thing. and since you brought race into it...what about all those asian men who cheat on their wives. just because a couple doesn't talk about it doesn't mean that it's a good thing.