how do I change from romantic to vital and independent?

Question

I usually put my hopes and forget my problems by dreaming of my prince charming but I think he's not coming so now I have to change and forget about that and be possitive in another way, how do I do it?thanks

Answer 1

I have the same problem so I might be able to help. I'm sure after I write this I'm gonna wish I could take my own advice.

The best way to go is try to keep busy. Find new things to do and when you meet a guy that you like try (TRY HARD) not to make it the centre of your toughts. Always keep yourself busy.
Also you could try finding more than one guy to like and that way you'll be thinking about a lot of guys and you won't be focusing on if *John* called or looked at you or flirted with you or anything.

But the key is always putting yourself first and try to be active. Go out with friends, meet new people, etc.etc.

Oh! I almost forgot (and this is very important). Always remember that your partner it's not supposed to complete you. You should be a complete person in order to be able to have a healthy relationship. You don't *need* the other person and you shouldn't depend on others to define what you wanna do. You should be able to look into yourself and do what you really want to and not what you think you need (that you don't really need).