the girls at school have decided to make my daughter's life miserable. I contacted the girls parents and it was resolved with one of them but the other girl's mom basically didn't care saying that her daughter has gone through it so it was my daughter's turn ~WHAT!??!!~ any advice would be great.... my daughter came home early from school today and doesn't really want to go back tomorrow.
2006-12-11 07:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda B 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
GO TO THE PRINCIPLE AND LODGE A COMPLAINT and do tell him that the two girl's parents are largely indifferent to the matter and consider it as some stupid right of passage not to worry about.
In this day and time there is usually a No Tolerance System for bullies. Your daughter does NOT have to put up with it. If the school principle fails to take appropriate action THEN call the County School District Manager and lodge a complaint - and warn them you will be seeking out an attorney against the school and these parents of nothing is done to stop it.
I have a daughter, when she was younger - who oddly enough switched from being bullied to being a bully. She must have figured bullies get by with all kinds of crap. I never condoned it and she faced state charges for her bullying and that was the best thing that could happen because she realized that bullying just don't work out so well.
SO DON'T TAKE CRAP from these girl's parents or from the school.
I wish you luck. By the way - my daughter is grown now and isn't perfect by any means, but she tends to respect people more now that she's an adult.., or at least she certainly tries.
2006-12-11 07:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Victor ious 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is why I homeschool. At age 9 I was being tortured by the daughter of my mothers friend... my mother addressed it with the girls mom and I was called a liar, ending the friendship. The school never saw anything so hands were tied... I was damaged.
My only consulation... as my mother predicted, this girl did not make it through highschool and was a very young mother. I graduated near the top of my class and made wise choices.
2006-12-11 09:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by AHERMITT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the school. There will be a policy in place if you are in an accredited school.
Hopefully the resistent mom will back down before she ends up having to homeschool her precious darling for the rest of the year. (and that has been some of the lighter punishments lately.... saw a news article a few weeks ago of a 10yr old in jail.... for bullying).
2006-12-11 09:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with school. When I was bullied a while back i came home crying and my mum printed off some papers on bullys so i could see why they did it and then contacted school and it was sorted out the day after.
2006-12-11 07:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for a talk with the girl's teacher AND the administration. This is against most school rules and the bully has to be dealt with. If they won't deal with it, go to the school board and/or the police.
2006-12-11 08:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bieng bullied is the worse. the best thing you can tell your daughter to do is to ignore it. fighting back with them just makes it worse. buy your daughter something pretty and nice to wear to school tomorow make her feel better about herself. tell her to keep her head up and words only hurt when you let them. as for that mother call her again and tell her just what you think of her letting her daughter do this to your child. tell her that if she does not make her stop you will have your daughter sue her for harasment. also call the school and talk to the teacher and who ever is in charge of the school and tell them there will be a law suit for neglect if something is not done. i know that is sounds harsh but it will get them to make it stop. good luck .
2006-12-11 07:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to heck with the parents, obviously they have no idea how to raise their kid if it's acting like that, i went right to the school and KEPT going back until the school called in the authorities and finally the little dweeb was expelled. turns out the bully was abused at home and me causing a fuss caused people to look into his home life and apprehend him, in any case he wasn't bugging us anymore :)
2006-12-11 08:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the principle of her school, trust me, if you don't get help, it does not go away, it gets worse. The principle should know that the one girl is trying to bully your kid, and the parent does not even care.
2006-12-11 08:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complain to the school principal, if they don't do anything you might want to change her to another school. It's not worth it if you gotta deal with losers. Good luck!
2006-12-11 08:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by Olga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notify the school, teacher and principal....listen politely and give them a chance, if it continues...go back and suggest your lawyer knows what to do.
2006-12-11 07:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by Outside the box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋