ok...here's the story...my father has been saving up for 2-3 to buy me a VERY impressive birthday present. well, it is impressive, I was very surprised and didn't even know what to say...so he bought me a golden ring AND a golden necklace with a christian cross on it (I hate crosses...nevermind). SO....I hate jewels I HATE JEWELS I HATE JEWELS ,JEWELS ARE VERY GAY and anyway...it is so lame to wear expensive jewels like a snob (yep...they were veeeeery expensive)
*sigh* ridiculous...I didn't want ANY jewel....it would have been enough if he had baught me 3-4 ...even 5 books (if he wanted to impress me)
So here I am...with these stupid golden stuff and I have to wear them ...yep...everywhere...that's what I don't like and NEVER liked...although i had other necklaces, I didn' wear them because i HATE necklaces
So...I am asking you guys to tell me your opinion regarding the next step I should do: 1.tell him that I don't like the present or 2. wear those stupid stuff all my life.
2006-12-11 07:39:09 · 12 answers · asked by whateverlala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My opinion is that you should wear them daily for the next 3-4 months and then quietly place them in your jewelry box (if you don't have one, get one) until the time and place you feel older and able to wear them again. Honestly, as a woman I think the gift was very beautiful and showed a love for you that I am sure at this point you are not able to see. Prayerfully in years to come you will appreciate the gift and be able to see it for what it was at that time. Until then, my prayers are with you. Take good care of your gift if you choose not to wear.
2006-12-11 07:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your father must know you very well if he didn't know that you hate gold and jewels the way you seem to. I would tell him that you are not into that sort of item without throwing a fit like you did in your question and you will probably be surprised at how responsive he will be once he knows the truth. If it is any consolation, any guy that is foolish enough to want to marry you wont have to buy you anything more than a ring pop.
2006-12-11 07:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell him that thanks for the golden things but i am not a person who wear necklaces and u know u should spend that much on me... i mean a few books will be good too u know. U should sit him down and look at him with a smile and talk to him how u feel in a NICE way...
2006-12-11 07:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may well be yet he's your Dad,admire him once you become old you will look back and understand him extra.you have a brilliant Dad that is going to artwork for his family contributors,He may well be a looser meth head. Honor him even however he's basically human
2016-12-11 07:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by bustamante 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made it very clear that he truly saved up for this especially for you. I think you owe it to him to wear the "stupid jewels" as you call them. Just dont wear them everyday. Wear them on special ocasions (his birthday, your birthday, christmas...). Dont tell him you dont like them, you're going to break his heart. I think in these cases we need to just suck it up and be grateful. Please dont tell him you dont like them, this is not the time to be honest, you are going to break his heart.
2006-12-11 07:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally sounds like your a brat sorry but really a gift should always be appreciated it is the thought that counts but if you really can not bare to wear them just give you father an idea of what you do like hints are always nice
2006-12-11 07:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by simply me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will crush his feelings if you don't wear them. and you will crush his feelings if you tell him how you really feel about his gifts. i would suggest wearing them occasionally. keeping them in a safe place when you are not wearing them i bet your attitude about his gifts to you will change when you are older...and when he is no longer with you..(when he passes away) you will have those mementos to remind you of his love for you.
2006-12-11 07:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has saved this $ for a long time and didnt ask you for what you liked then i wouldnt hurt his feelings. its best not to tell him. this might destroy his pride. maybe if you have a very good relationship with him kindly to speak to him and tell him how you feel
2006-12-11 07:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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be grateful you have a father. also be grateful he is willing to give you a lot of value. you can keep it as a keepsake, collectable or pawn it later on.
2006-12-11 07:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST WEAR IT ONCE A WEEK LIKE ON SUN, WHEN HE CAN SEE IT. KEEP IT, DON'T THROW IT AWAY, SOME TIME YOU MIGHT DECIDE THAT YOU LIKE IT.
2006-12-11 07:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋