I am one month pregnant and my boyfriend and I aren't married but I don't want to go throught his alone any advice?
2006-12-11 07:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by Babygurl Alex!! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just because you aren't married why do you have to go through it alone. My boyfriend and I aren't married. We do however live together.
Does he even know that you are pregnant? Try tell him and go from there....Who knows it just might be the encouragement that he needs to pop the big question.
2006-12-11 07:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask your boyfriend if he is going to be there for you, if he doesn't sound like he wants to be apart of it then you should go to your parents. make sure they are willing to help you and there to support you. But even if your not married your boyfriend can still be a big help. this can be something that pulls you guys to together more. This baby could be the reason why you get married to him later and maybe you wouldn't have thought so unless you had this baby.
2006-12-11 07:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend were together for two months and then I found out I was pregnant. He's still here to this day because, as he says, any one who has his daughter and loves and cares for her he can't stop loving and caring for his girlfriend. Just talk to him and if he wants to have a family with you he will. It is hard (trust me) but even if you have to do it alone you'll make it.
2006-12-11 07:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by shele9806 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't be alone you have your baby.
The babies Father is your boyfriend, I am not aware of any rules that state a man can only be there for you if you are married. Plenty of married women feel alone too.
2006-12-11 07:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wing it i did - i was with my boyfriend 2 months and got pregnant - i decided i was having the baby and told him he could leave if he wanted but i was having it and 3 years later we have 2 kids and are married.
2006-12-11 07:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by utopia760 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not depend on a man to be there. Depend on yourself. If he is there great if not it is his loss. Reach out to friends and family to help you get through this. Focus your energy on preparing for the babies arrival not on worrying if he will be there or not. You are probably stronger than you realize and give yourself credit for. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-11 07:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by RUBYMOON32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how you feel that you don't want to go through this alone ...as the father he has responsiblties ...if he dosen't want to be by yourside get a good friend to help you... pregnancy is very hard and emotional you will need all the help you can get . good luck hope it works out for you
get alot of rest.
2006-12-11 07:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since when was it important to be married when your already pregnant unless your folks are very religiou. yhe way i see it is if he wants to be apart of it he can and if he dont then he dont need to be apart of nothing else (raising the child) unless he superly really apologizes and only and if
2006-12-11 07:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by deserealee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what's going with you and your body. If he tries that lame excuse like " how do i know its mine" then Stand on your own two feet and do for yourself and your child.
2006-12-11 07:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by selenca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your pregmant and tell him how much you care for him and having him as a father to you child means to you
2006-12-11 07:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny Q 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋