Who's is it?

Question

I had unprotected sex with my son's dad on the 14th or 15th and started dating my current boyfriend, had unprotected sex with him on the 23rd.. Who is the father??

My Period was from Nov 5th - 11th..

My periods are regular, and last about 7 days..

Answer 1

I have had a similar situation. My guess would be that your boyfriend is the father. My suggestion is to make sure they both know what is going on. neither will be happy but they have to know the longer you wait to tell them the more upset everyone will be. Also see your doctor as soon as you can.

Answer 2

Wow...seriously? You went from one guy (who you've apparently been with for a while, in that you have a living child with him), straight into bed with another guy in less than 10 days, and didn't use a condom with either one?

Wow. You REALLY need to try using birth control. You're clearly not mature enough to be a parent, and should stop putting living human beings in a situation where they don't know their father.

I also recommend that you ask your doctor for information on how the menstrual cycle works...This is the type of thing that most girls are taught when they're 14.

If your period started on the 5th, you would have ovulated on the 19th. Generally, sperm can last for about three days inside a woman's body, so it's most likely that this child belongs to your new boyfriend (won't he be thrilled to be a father after dating you for only a few weeks!).

Answer 3

Ummm...daanzig...she's looking for help....not sarcasm. If you have to be rude...don't waste your time answering people's questions.
As mentioned above...you'd need to provide the first day of your last period in order to get a bit more accurate on who the father might be. There is a fairly small window in which you can get pregnant. If you're not sure...you might be relying on DNA tests after birth.

UPDATE:
Based on info you provided....if it's your son's dad...you're 5 weeks pregnant. If it's the other guys...you're 4 weeks pregnant. Either one might show up on a pregnancy test. So there's no way to be sure at this point. An ultrasound might give you a better guess...but it looks like you might be stuck with a DNA test later. If I had to guess though, I'd say it's your son's dad's.

Answer 4

I would say your sons dad..but the best way to know is to stop sleeping around!! If you are done with your sons dad then why would you have sex with him...start dating another guy right away and sleep with him right away unprotected as well! did you ever hear of STD'S ..ever here of protection?? I mean a little irresponsible don't you think??? Just my opinion....good luck and be honest with both just in case..guarantee you they're gonna want a dna test done!! I would too If I were them!!

Answer 5

You'll have to get a DNA test after the child is born. What a shame to be in this position.

Answer 6

most likely, your current boyfriend, but you should still get a test and make sure, i was raised all my life thinking the wrong man was my father and when i found out a year ago, it really sucked!!

Answer 7

ask your doctor when the date of conception is and go by that, and stop having unprotected sex with everyone and their neighbour, you'll end up with diseases.

Answer 8

It's the other guy you met at the supermarket or maybe it was the guy at the gas station, but come to think of it it could of been that old man who was begging for money

Answer 9

Paternity test is the only solution

Answer 10

uhh we'd need a bit more info? how long are your cycles?are they regular? when did your last cycle start? we dont have a crystal ball here..