2006-12-11 07:08:47 · 34 answers · asked by LILY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he can probably get a public defender to help him and since he is in prison it can be done for free or even legal aid might be able to help him
2006-12-11 07:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, I always wondered how people find success with women. I am smart, I think I'm good looking, nice guy, nice career, funny, etc. I had a hard time finding any women (although I eventually found my wife, but before her it was hell).
Yet there are some people who have many women in spite of not having any of the things that women allegedly look for.
I just don't get it. Please smarten up. Go back and read your question - you want to make a married man who's in prison get divorced so you can marry him.
His wife would probably love your help so he can be rid of the loser.
2006-12-11 07:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u want to marry someone in prison and to add more he's already married. No sense at all. If he wanted a divorce he could of had it done already. When someone is locked up divorce can go fast. He's playing you and he's never leaving his wife. You can do better. Look for someone whos not in prison.
2006-12-11 07:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by gonzalezleon3022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! First you need to re-group and decide if you really want to marry him! You need to evaluate a lot of things: how long will he be in prison? what is he even in prison for? why isn't he divorced? why does he want to marry you now?
If you still feel you need/want to marry this man, then the only thing he can do is file or have his wife file for a divorce petition through his attorney (I am sure he had one when he went to court) after that, I am not sure how it works for the two of you to be married...if the prison system he is in allows it, you can do it there otherwise you may have to have a proxy marriage. Best of luck!
2006-12-11 08:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inmates often offer to marry people to have a place to go when they get out. Then, they take your money and dump you.This is a married man. He is a criminal. He is in prison. Geeez. Find a good guy who has never commited a crime and have some respect for yourself. You can do better. (By the way, he has an attorney. He can get a divorce like anyone else if he wants to. He probably doesn't want to.)
2006-12-11 07:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can still file for devorice even if he's in prison. My fiance is lockup to.So I kinda know what you are going throug.But what I would do is wait until he's out.To make sure that he really wants you.So many guys will say enything to a girl cause they are lockup.Just wait until he gets out in try to stay ingage for at less 3 months after just to see if it's real dont want to see you get hurt. If you need to talk my email is hclover21@yahoo.com But if ya'll were together before he left then do what you got to do but yes he can still file for papers.
2006-12-11 07:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask respectfully, ARE YOU NUTS?
Would you please explain what on earth you are thinking.
The dude is 1, Married 2. A felon ( misdemeanors don't do state time here) 3. not going to find work any time soon 4. Not able to sign many leases and did I say MARRIED.
What is it that makes you want to wait for this guy?
2006-12-11 07:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to marry him. The fact that he is already married and in prison are two RED Flags as to why any relationship with him is doomed to failure
2006-12-11 07:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by wanabe30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
News flash, He isn't your fiance' he is someones husband and married to her. Why 1.) would you want to marry someone who is a convict. 2.) why get involved with a married man.
3.) He is playing you and his wife both, I would bet money on this.
2006-12-11 07:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you go to a shrink and explain the problem to her. She will then have you institutionalized for thinking you can marry a married man. Second, she will prescribe shock therapy until you no longer consider marrying a man who is in prison.
Get real life!
2006-12-11 07:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl please,you need to find some one who is free to love you and only you.what are you so desperate that you would marry a man who's already married and the man is in prison?you sound a little nuts to me.Drop that fool and find you a free man.
2006-12-11 07:11:59 · answer #11 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋