My first husband had an affair with a woman half his age & he thought it wasn't wrong. The other woman got pregnant.If I had an affair with another man I would make sure that I would not get pregnant.His friend actually blamed the affair on the other woman.Are all men like this? It seems.
2006-12-11 06:29:52 · 13 answers · asked by Nancy M. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think that all men are bad...but they mostly are all taken by a woman that doesn't deserve them! I've seen in my experience that if you treat a man good, they treat you bad...but if you are a ***** to them..they come barking and crawling for you. Now, I'm not saying to treat men poorly, but just make them appreciate the person that you are and they will never let you down. As far as your ex....just forget about him, he doesn't deserve you or your tears. I know that you can get through it...because every woman has been in a similar situation. Learn and grow with every bad and good thing that happens to you! Don't ever blame yourself!
2006-12-11 06:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not. There are plenty of me who do not treat women badly. I have found over the years that you can tell a lot about a man's character by the way he treats his wife/girl friend and children. After all, if a man will betray the trust put in him by his wife he will betray any trust put in him by anyone.
2006-12-11 14:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Stewart H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because although society trys to say that everything is equal it's really not. I mean we will never be able to get away with the stuff men. But would we want to?
2006-12-11 14:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by dyanholla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wont get someone pregnant probably you did something and he went in for someone else.And as for his friend blaming someone else he only wanted a way to sympathize with you and sleep with you.Trust me I've been there done that.And yes women can't compare themselves to men.Never
2006-12-11 14:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by shygirl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the double standard thing.
from when women were just property.
I have no clue about the details of your situation so I won't judge.
2006-12-11 14:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it justifies what they did... Same way with visiting Asian Massage Parlors... They are because we did something wrong.. MENopause, MENstruation, MENtal illness... What are the key words!!
2006-12-11 14:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Its me!!! :) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because society expects more from women.
2006-12-11 14:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
double standards in a patriarchal society
2006-12-11 14:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Megan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause back in the day men were above us and some people think that way!!!
2006-12-11 14:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by higginslove3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are. They have had years of learning this. What is ok for them is not ok for us. But it is changing... finally.
2006-12-11 14:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋