how do you tell your mum you have a boyfriend?

Question

i am 13 and i've just met a really nice guy. i am the oldest in my family, how can i tell my mum that i've got a boyfriend and help her undersatnd that people don't get their first boyfrinnd at 17 any more?

also, how do you tell your mum that he has invited you to go to town with him?

Answer 1

Just calmly say to her that you have met a great young man, and that you really wanted to share that with her because it's important to you that she knows about things of that nature. A bond between a mother and daughter should be that way, you should be able to tell her things like that, she shouldn't be angry at all. Don't worry about it.
Take care, all the best
:)

Answer 2

You are very young and it may take ur mom by surprise that you have a boyfriend.
If you are being responsible and are not planing on taking things too far with this boy maybe it would be better to just go with the flow and have a nice time with this boy.
If ur mom asks u about him tell her that u like him a lot, that he's nice and u have a good time with him....she will get the hint. When we are young we have lots of flings and lots of "boyfriends" and "Girlfriends"...it may not be as big of a deal as u think.
Have a nice time with him, but be responsible for yourself so that u can respect yourself.

Answer 3

Be honest with her. Tell her you would like to invite him and his parents over for dinner. That may be a nice way to make her feel better about things. Just promise to be true to yourself, do not give into peer pressures like sex just because you have a boyfriend. Stick to your morals and values! i am sure your mom will appreciate knowing you still come to talk to her about your life. Open communication is so important in any relationship! Good Luck!

Answer 4

Just tell her straightforward. Tell her that you met this guy; let her know that you like him the same way he likes you. If all goes well, then ask your mum permission to invite the young man over for dinner so that she can get to know him better. Everything will be fine.

Answer 5

just tell her you have a really close guy friend that you like more then a friend. Tell her you wont be doing adult stuff right now but you guys want to hang out as more then just friends and a lot of your friends at school now have boyfriends. Its no longer a 17 year old thing like it was back then.

Answer 6

Just say "Mum, I've got a boyfriend." She'll probably have guessed anyway though. Just don't let her down by sleeping with him or getting up the duff - you're way too young for any of that, and she'll be worrying about it.

Answer 7

start talking about dating, try using a lot of slang words to knock her off course, and then explain to her that this is 2006 and not 1902, dont say but my friends r doing it, or else u will get something like "if your friends jump in a fire, will u do it?" or some crap like that. tell her u would like to test the waters, dont mention sex until she brings it up, and if she does go: "eeewww!"
if all is good and she says sweet, tell her he is coming round 4 sunday lunch
good luck

Answer 8

Hmmm, I have 4 year old daughter and I'm not looking forwards to this happening to her.
Just tell her, and expect her to be worried and strict, but be as honest as you can with her, and DON'T let him pressure you into anything, it's illegal to engage in ANY kind of sex at your age.

Good luck with that honey.

Answer 9

sit her down and explain u have a good friend who happens to be male. ask her if you can bring him home so she can see what he is like. but remember she will be worried as you are only 13 and she will only have your best interests at heart.

Answer 10

Try saying "Mum, I have a boyfriend".