2006-12-11 06:13:01 · 8 answers · asked by ourjacobdavid 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I never have, but I know my mom lost one in a car accident... The guy rear-ended us on our way to a church hay ride for Christmas, and she lost the baby. I am so sorry to all for such a terrible loss. I wish you all a happy holiday, and know that your child is waiting for you in Heaven, and he have a little place all set up for you....
2006-12-11 06:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by TNT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost a baby when he was three months old to SIDS. Yes, Christmas just doesn't hold the same magic as it once did. His birthday is also December 16th so it's double trouble. But I have an 8 year old who kind of keeps me balanced.
It's tough and it happened a long time ago but it's still a lot to deal with. I hope this is not happening to you, but I would guess from your question it has. I'm so very sorry...remember you'll get through it. If you feel sad go off and cry for a while. That's perfectly normal and ok. You have the right to feel what you do and nobody can take that away. Try to remember the time you did have.
2006-12-11 14:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am currently 35 pregnant and I already have 4 children...but last December I miscarried triplets at 16 weeks. I know it is different than losing a full term baby, but it still hurts. I thought that by now I would be fine and that this pregnancy would make the pain from miscarrying go away...but the other day when we were putting up our Christmas tree, my 12 year old said "If moms babies would have made it, they would be almost 6 months old and we would have three more stockings to hang this year!".....I burst into tears. Losing anybody or anything that you love is hard...Just try and remember the good times and the wonderful things that may come in the future.
2006-12-11 14:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never lost a baby.. but I can tell you that my mother did lose a child. After I was born she lost a baby boy. I am 23 now.. so that means... around 20 years ago this happened... because is was before my youngest brother was born, and he is 17, my second to oldest brother is almost 22. She still talks about him, what he would have looked like, what he may have accomplished in his life ... she sometimes cries, and gets very sad... so I can imagine, just about any mother probably gets sad esecially at these times of the year...
2006-12-11 14:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never had a baby so i cant say how it feels to have lost a child. I am sure that you are upset about losing your child especially during the holidays. One of my family members lost their child but now they are blessed with twins, maybe you will also who knows? I am sorry for such news. I would try not to think about it much. I hope this helps.
2006-12-11 14:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by shru 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost a baby in my 18th week of pregnancy. I had to deliver the baby after my water broke and the baby strangled on the cord. The holidays are very hard for us because it happened around this time of year. I hope you feel better soon. Time heals.
2006-12-11 14:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I feel sorry for any one who lost there baby. A baby is a woman pride and joy. A child sometimes is what make a woman.
Life is fun when children are involve.
2006-12-11 14:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by LovelyTracy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think of mine and how the baby would have turned out..it would have been about 6 years old now..
2006-12-11 14:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋