one of my boobs is bigger than the other.its getting me down and i feel embarrased to take my clothes off in?

Question

front of a guy. i cant afford surgery and im too embarrassed to go see a doctor.its really getting me down.whats a guys view of this

i am 24, theres no hope of them correcting themself now.

and the difference is very noticeable

Answer 1

Having one breast bigger than the other is perfectly normal. You say it is very noticable. Maybe it is very noticeable to you because it's your own image. We tend to notice things about ourselves that we don't like, things other people don't even notice, or even find attractive. Somebody mentioned here that the models in men's magazines seem to have perfectly formed boobs. I have seen some of these girls in porn movies, and you can see, because they are moving around and get in different positions, that many of them have one boob bigger than the other, especially on large busted women, and sometimes it is very noticable. I don't find that unattractive at all. In fact, because variety is the spice of life, the larger one is usually softer than the smaller one, and when making love can be a real turn on. I am talking about natural boobs, and not silicone, which feel like over inflated baloons which I, and most men, don't like, but some men do. So you see, men find women attractive for a variety of reasons, and if you find a man who rejects you because of your boobs, which I doubt, he wasn't worth it anyway.

Answer 2

I had the same problem. First of all, how old are you? If you are still developing, the one could catch up with the other. Almost all women have one breast that is bigger than the other and some have breasts that are significantly different. One of my breasts was a large B and the other a large A. I hate to say it but I had sex with alot of guys when I was younger and alot of guys saw me naked. Only one guy ever pointed it out to me even though it was very noticeable. I had breast augmentation when I was 18 and the Dr. was sure I had stopped growing. I am now a full C cup. I had alot of problems with the breast augmentation. One of them deflated and I had to replace it. I ended up having to have 3 surgeries in all. I am happy I did it because they look so much better. They finance plastic surgery now even for those with little or bad credit. Look at the back of Cosmopolitan, there is a 1 page ad. I think you would feel so much more confident, if you had the surgery. You don't need to get them both done either. You could just put a saline implant in the one to match the other. Is there any way your parents would help you pay for the surgery, can they afford it? If you explained how much it bothers you, they may be willing to atleast help out. I'm not a guy so I don't know how they view this but I think they don't care if they are just a little different. They might not find it attractive though if they are drastically different. By the way, did you know almost all guys have different size testicles and some guys only have one? Guys nipples can also be different sizes! Bottom line is, no one is perfect. I know most guys prefer real boobs over fake ones for a fact though! Have you talked to your female friends about your problem? I bet you're not the only one with different size breasts! In my opinion, if they're a cup or more different in size and you're done growing, look into surgery, In the meantime, buy those silicone things that look like boobs and stick one in the smaller side of the bra. If your breasts are just slightly different, quit worrying! Good luck. I know how you feel. Don't let it run your life. Concentrate on the things you like about yourself like your eyes, hair, legs, booty, etc... LOVE YOURSELF! What cup size is each breast that way people can give you more of an opinion!

Answer 3

I don't think its important but there are natural remedies I've heard. Perfect symmetry isn't usually achieved without surgery anyway. I'd check with a doc to have a mammogram to rule out any serious problems though. It could also be relevant to how your muscles are developed if you compare sides. Exercise to even out muscle type and mass of your pectorals, shoulders and back can have an effect. Loosing body fat will also make changes in appearance. Besides who is going to give a crap if your in great shape and you would probably feel better anyway.

Answer 4

I can tell you from a girl's view. Are boobs are not even, believe it or not. Of course the girls with the silicone get theirs fixed, to not only make them bigger but even them out. Don't be embarrassed to see a doctor. They are the only ones who can help you if you really want surgery. Just hope that it will make you feel better about yourself. Good Luck with everything!



Krazy Libra

Answer 5

Don't worry about it. Seriously. I have been with a lot of women before I was married. I have NEVER seen one with perfectly symmetrical breasts (like the ones you see in adult magazines). Please don't get caught up in the whole "Men like women who are....(fill in the blanks)" that society leads us to believe. You may even be surprised, I'm sure if you search the net, you may even find websites, forums or blogs filled with tons of men who prefer such a thing. If you don't draw attention to it, odds are the guy won't be concerned either.

Answer 6

Honey there is no need for you to feel embarassed. To tell you the truth EVERY female has one breast bigger than the other. Hell, one of my breast is slightly bigger than the other one. And babygirl, you shouldn't be embarassed to take your clothes off, because the one you take your clothes off too should be the one that loves you regardless of anything. good luck

Answer 7

:-)

From a book, "The Limerick"

There was a gal from Neises
who had tit's of 2 different sizes
One was so small you couldn't see it all
The other was so big it won prizes.


From a guys point, if they a murals, (look but don't touch) I don't want them no matter what size, if they are boy toys, thats what counts :-)

Answer 8

You have suddenly excited me. I would never mind for you to take your clothes off before me, there's nothing wrong with you, so what if one boob is larger than the other?

Answer 9

Don't be. Boobs are sexier when they are natural and not all women are the same. If a guy is lucky enough to having sex with you he won't care.

Answer 10

I dont know, never seen a girl like that. Best thing is to forget about it or wait until you can afford the surgery.