well my ex gf broke up w/ me because she had a bf as well and she new it hurt me so she said we were better off friends. I love her and i no shes happy, but i want her back. Today her bf and her are running away together because her dad kicked her out of the house. Yeah im jealous and i no her being w/ him shes gonna get in2 alot of trouble. but itz to late, but when she comes back how can i tell her and convince her that i am the 1??? Omg i hate high school and itz drama!
2006-12-11 05:39:23 · 5 answers · asked by Amber B. 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Drama spices our lives, so don't hate it.. Enjoy it while you can.
The problem here is you want someone back, and she does not want to be with you... This is classic and the advice is usually the same, but it is easier said than done.
Don't force yourself on someone, being in a relationship is an act of freewill, even if attraction may not be. Lay low and give it time (easier said than done), and do productive things other than thinking of her always. Join a new club, join a gym, get a new sport, do something that will release endorphins.
Don't chase and corner her, because the tendency is always to break away from the clutches.
Even if you think being with her boyfriend is a big mistake, sadly, that mistake is hers to make, and that lesson is hers to learn.
2006-12-11 05:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
even if you do get her back it's been my experience that when a couple break up and get back together they don't stay that way for long.I've seen it with friends and have done the same thing myself. went back to the same one three times before i learned my lesson about getting my heart broke. so it's best to just move on. whats really great is that the one who hurt me by leaving all the time now has the same thing thrown at him by his new boyfriend. they are starting on make up number 4. so it all comes back to you i guess
2006-12-11 05:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh the ridiculous drama. This sounds like an episode of 90210.
2006-12-11 05:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get over her and move along
2006-12-11 05:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up - and get rid of that hat
2006-12-11 05:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Brooke 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋