Okay, I was asking a female friend out on a date without using the word "date". I asked her if she'd like to go bowling or to a movie and then she told me she had a boyfriend, which was totally awkward but thats not what this is about. She did say that we could still hang out and stuff and said something about maybe going bowling with a group this weekend. I said I couldnt, but now I think I can. She also has a college exam today. I have the same class but at a different time so my exam is friday. I need to get in touch with her to A)find out about the exam so I can score high, and B)to let her know that I can go bowling this weekend so that we can discuss, who, when and where. The only problem with this is that I dont know when her exam is today. I dont want to call her during the middle of her test. Should I text her later to find out if she already took it, and then call her if the answer is yes? How should I deal with this?
2006-12-11 05:32:27 · 8 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can text message her but keep in mind the test may not be the same. My professor used different test for each class. That way no-one could cheat. About the bowling thing. I think that is pretty good of you to go but I also think it sucks that you have to hide your feelings. Keep being her friend and see where it goes. She may realize that other guys are not right for her and what she has been looking for has always been right in front of her. Good Luck.
2006-12-11 05:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the end of the day (after 5pm) to call her. If she has any brains or courtesy at all, she will turn off her phone while she takes the test.
Then, tell her you hope she did well, and ask if the test was difficult or not. The professor will undoubtedly give you a slightly different test on Friday, so there's no way you will be able to cheat by asking her what exactly was on the test.
Then say, hey I found out I am free this weekend, when is the gang going bowling, I'd love to tag along?
Next, shame on you for trying to ask her out on a date when she had a boyfriend! Even if you tried to pretend it wasn't, by your own admission you were trying to make a "date" with her. The girl is taken, she is off-limits, and you will just have to deal with it. If you sincerely want to be her friend, great, you can hang out one-on-one as friends, but don't try to make her into your "sexless girlfriend." Reassure her that you just want to be friends, and you won't try to hit on her or anything. Make sure other people are welcome to attend as well, so that the outing seems less "couple-y."
2006-12-11 13:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better get to text messaging that girl! She can answer you later and what better way to start off a conversation than a text message! You can really get some stuff going but you tell her to remember she has boyfriend and always hit delete after reading your texts. You don't need some guy looking for you to beat the hell out of you during final weeks you need to be able to see the test!
2006-12-11 13:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by KimmeD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tex her later and wait if u have feelings for her do u really think that going bowling w her and her mate is such a good idea but if u think it wont bother u then stay friends and talk to her about it and yes ask if her exam went well shed like to know that ur still a friend and not just there cuz u want her
2006-12-11 13:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by fireball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off...if shes a smart girl...she'll turn off or silent her phone when taking her exam.....so whenever you have a chance call and leave a voicemail....ask your exam question....and at the end simply say....change of plans I am up for group bowling.....then hang up.....if she calls back cool.....if not well maybe she was just being nice about the whole thing...
2006-12-11 13:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off shes nothing but trouble, especialy if she has a boyfriend and still wants to hang out as she calls it, back off you dont want to get in a tangle like that. but if u really want 2 go boling with her and a group than text message her asking wat times her test if shes testing tthl if shes not then text each other the who when were
2006-12-11 13:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by his nena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a boyfriend and is happy to date you? "Still hang out and stuff" is what she's calling it? That means you pay LOL Why bother tracking her down- she's nothing but trouble.
2006-12-11 13:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it. Text her and go from there.
2006-12-11 13:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋