WHAT is the attraction? I'm pisces(2/27/72) & bf is sag(12/17/69).?

Question

My boyfriend & I have been on again & off again for the last 9 years. The sex is absolutely phenomenal & mindblowing but that's about where it ends. Despite our attempts to "walk away," we ALWAYS find ourselves back together. We do "try" & he & I both do see the effort the other puts forth but in this case, "love" isn't enough & I'm at my wits end. l do love him. I know he loves me. We just can't seem to be happy with one another & make it work. I guess I just want to know, is it in the stars? l want to make this work but after 9 years...........The only reason I'm even considering this is because he is "moving mountains" to make this work this time & seems like he wants to settle down. But I have my fears & insecurities about him. We've tried everything in the world.......so what do "other worldly" influences say?

Answer 1

Im a pisces and i was with a sag for a few years and thats all it was was sex because theres no emotional tie i mean i wanted it to be and tried so hard like you did but gave up because we are not connected to the sag man and we are too emotional for them.we might love them but you need more than love to make a relationship work.you see how hard it is too stay together,someone once told me if you have to struggle to be together then that person is not the one.I understand you guys have 9 years but maybe thats all they were just years.I f you will this struggle will continue you need to move on.you dont want to be in the relationship down the road 15 years and still unhappy,move on before its harder to leave,you both belong as friends only it seems like.trust me i thought the relationship would change too,it never did it stays the same.goodluck try to find someone more sensitive to your needs pisces this is what we need!

Answer 2

Pisces and Sagittarius are one of those unlikely couples who seem to get along, despite their differences. Traditional astrologers tend to nay-say your prospects with the randy Archer, but if anyone can keep a Sagittarius interested, it is the creative and multifaceted Fish. With jolly Jupiter smiling on you both, the good life can be yours to share.

Pisces, the Fishes, and Sagittarius, the Archer, are both Mutable Signs, giving the two of you a true desire to communicate, even if your styles don't seem all that compatible. Sag is uninhibited, ready to make love on impulse and not impressed with delaying tactics, or feeble, wimpy approaches. The most important issue is truth and honesty. Guilt and shame are foreign to the Sagittarian sexual persona - and the Archer does not have much patience with more convoluted souls in these matters.

Sagittarius can overwhelm the audience over with sheer volume and enthusiasm, while you often prefer to communicate your intentions subtly through your limpid eyes. Sagittarius is infamous for suffering from foot-in-mouth disease, while you often don't say what is on your mind. You can learn to be more assertive and forthright from the rarely deceptive Archer, while your Sagittarian lover can take notes from you on when silence is the most effective statement.

Pisces is a Water Sign and Sagittarius is a Fire Sign, so sexual ignition is hot and steamy, but you must make compromises and accept your differences if you want this relationship to last. Water has the power to put out fire, but fire can evaporate water into extinction! Learn to respect each other's needs and feelings, otherwise you risk destroying each other. Mutual honesty is the key to the Archer.When you do find the right balance, you can create a healthy, steamy sort of energy that keeps you warm on even the coldest nights.

Fortunate Jupiter, your life-ruler, also rules Sagittarius, linking you in a very spiritual way. Since you tend to have profound religious experiences and seek a Higher Source, you can bond while pondering the meaning of life. You might not agree on the answers, but at least you'll have fun considering all the possibilities!

Your lover is always wanting to be up-and-at 'em, and may also suffer from a roving eye. This rather fails to nurture your need for attention and devotion - and that sharp Saggie tongue can wound your romantic sensibilities. You long to get close, but can be confused and rebuffed by your lover's need to be free - especially from any emotional demands.

There must be common ground for you to build on, otherwise the two of you will work at cross purposes. However, with hard work and patience, this can be a rewarding relationship.

Answer 3

I guess 9 years of confusion isn't enough, but the pisces IS all about confusion. You're both freaks- you're the sneaky freak and he's the open-flirty freak. You're too emotional for sagittarius honey. You're drowning in your own element(water), and putting a damper on his(fire). He may love you, but he'll always leave you even if he does keep coming back. Sorry, truth hurts sometimes.

Answer 4

My only recommendation is to stop trying so hard to make it work with him and just let what happens, happens. Obviously there's an attraction there, so put the past behind you and if he behaves decently for the next six months or so, move in together and go from there.

Answer 5

That's going to depend. From what I have read in astrology a sag and pieces are bad mix.... But if you want to go for it then it's up to you. If you two love each other then you will find ways to work it out.
Good Luck

Answer 6

you're born 72 and he's born 69 ... mmmmmm i foresee fireworks