the sex isnt that great anymore & u really need to do sumthing about it?
2006-12-11 05:08:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell her gently. Dont make a joke out of it. But make sure she knows that u still love her no matter what and you're just interested in bettering the physical aspect.
2006-12-11 05:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say "The sex isn't great and I really would like to do something about it."!!! LOL Sounds nuts, but seriously, honesty is the biggest key of communication. Tell that person how you feel and what you would like to do and what makes things enjoyable for you. Don't forget to appreciate them, becuase these things can come as a hard blow, but don't let your appreciation be a sugar-coat so they miss your point. Then be patient and enjoy eachother.
2006-12-11 05:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe don't tell her right off the bat!! Try thinking of some new things to try, visit an adult store and look for some new toys to try out!
If that doesn't work, then ask her how she has been feeling about the sex....but do it gently!
good luck!!
2006-12-11 06:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With discretion and sensitivity and avoiding words like "bad"; instead, concentrate on the benefits of spicing things up somehow...
2006-12-11 06:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by Donelle Leslie Deuel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come stragit out and say it.
2006-12-11 05:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say only the POSITIVE, like "Wouldn't it be exciring if we..." that kind of thing.
2006-12-11 06:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nina Caliente 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋