2006-12-11 04:58:48 · 8 answers · asked by frank_schul 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I really dont know in your shoes... But to tell you from experience... it will be really hard depending apon the neglection of the father... and her story... and her past... and how she deals with it... and blah blah... Just be patient... and completely understanding about her skeptical toward men. Im still fighting mine... 4 engagements... and some inbetween boyfriends or whatever.... and they were all great!! But until she finds a way to cope and deal with it... and having support from her loved ones... she would have a breakthrough of the post tramatic stress disorder... which that is diagnosed to people that have had bad times that they cant seems to over come... And some people never have that willingness to become a survivior than the victim... Its all will power... and it will make her strong.... and your relationship with her. stronger .. cause you were there for her... when she needed someone. I dont know if this helped you are not... but speaking from experience... it takes the right person to stay and comfort her and make her happy to over come the fear. And you know... from some of the other answers... like the one that says... need to get over that so you can live a happy life... or whatever it said... it kinda stuck out like a sore thumb... thats not words of encourgement... you just cant say... get over it... or deal with it... its an issue that millions of women (men) have... and it sure does sound easy enough to say it.. then to do it... cause it is hard... but words to live by.......... this to shall pass!! lol
2006-12-12 01:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by petalfushia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completelly understandable. I have found that the way you were raised shapes and molds who you will be in the future. If a woman was always neglected by the male figure she will develope a hate for them that is difficult to get over. The best treatment for her would be therapy.
2006-12-11 05:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
One of the great things about human beings is that no two are alike. People need to realize this in relationships and stop looking into the past for excuses for their own failures.
2006-12-11 05:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jimbo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They need to get over it and stop blaming the men for everything thats gone wrong in their life. They are depriving themselves of a good life and a good man if they continue this. Why be miserable over something that happen to them as a child and something that cannot be changed???
2006-12-11 05:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by Binky 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You have to try. Be patient with her. Don't force her to do anything she's not ready for. If she tells you something makes her uncomfortable, listen to her and heed her wishes. Tell her you love her, are there for her, and want to help her. Show her you care.
2006-12-11 05:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good male role models will help offset that! Be reasonable, be kind, be loyal and appreciate her. Your good values make the difference.
2006-12-11 05:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Habt our quell 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be sensitive to her, she probably is pretty sensitive already. It'll take time to build up that trust but it works with love and kindness.
2006-12-11 05:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Craiova 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With alot of patience and love-ALOT.
2006-12-11 05:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋