2006-12-11 04:52:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They make your life hard as much as you allow them to!
2006-12-11 05:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by valentin79ro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the guys come to her with so much play and insincerity which in turn makes it difficult for the good guys to connect with a young lady looking for honesty and sincerity. These days, every guy wants to be a player, thug, or pimp. And their MO is not to experience their true feelings and love with a young lady, their MO is to hurt before getting hurt. So if the young lady has any real respect or love for herself, she would totally ignore the guy who pretends he's not playing a game and can't face his on SELF because he's too fragile in that area, and move on to the guy who can be respectful and caring to this young lady because he knows he's not out to impress the guys by doggin' her. And then when the guy finally does grow up in maturity, he decides he wants a young lady with no baggage attached to her. And I ask, why is that? When all the players, thugs and pimps did was mess over many many young ladies. I hope you're not one of these.
A young lady looks for love, however, its sad but the guys look for sex which is (it seems) the only feeling they are strong enough to handle. But being vulnerable is too scary for these logical weaklings and at best their strength lies in playing with the ladies' emotions.
Instead of looking at a girl for her body, look for the girl who respects herself. There are some still out here. But please don't mess over her. Be true to both yourself and her. Work on being friends first.
2006-12-11 05:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by rightbackatcha! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cos the guys act like idiots
2006-12-11 04:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋