she says she needs to have the operation near san diego or the imperial area
2006-12-11 04:46:23 · 7 answers · asked by RENE H 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Once again...don't encourage this..just because people are careless and get that way,...she should try to either adopt it out, or have it and take care of it....she might be suprized how it changes her life...don't be a part of this, please....
2006-12-11 04:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't talked out her options with someone yet then she needs to find a clinic that explains all the options. A neutral clinic that talks about both abortion and adoption. This way she's completely informed and she has an opportunity to talk to someone neutral because she's probably feeling like life is chaotic right now.
I looked it up and eight weeks is plenty early enough to have an abortion if that's what she chooses. She can also have an abortion in the second trimester.
In terms of adoption there are so many ways that it can be arranged nowadays. It's such a different process than what you see in not-so-recent movies.
Whatever she decides I'm glad she has a friend supporting her through this time.
2006-12-11 16:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try to convince her to have the child and give the child to a family who will love and treasure the child. God has given her an amazing gift. No child should be aborted at any point in pregnancy. Life is something that too many people take for granted, and there are so many wonderful peolple in this world just looking for their chance to be a parent. Give them a chance even though she doen't want to be one. All actions have reprocutions.
2006-12-11 13:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by christinac6507 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to reconsider killing her unborn child. What did it do to deserve the death penalty? After you are pregnant is a little late to decide that you don't want children. She needs to have the child and then put it up for adoption. The waiting list for adopting babies is many years long. She could make a childless couple very happy.
2006-12-11 12:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Encourage her to have the baby and place it for adoption. You can only murder your first baby once. That knowledge will never leave her.
Call an Adoption attorney, the adoptive parents for pay the medical and legal costs
2006-12-11 12:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't want it - she should have seen a Dr. around her 3rd to 5th week. any time after that is to late and a abortion now could be dangerous to her and she could end up with never having babies again...
All in all she waited to long to do something about it...
2006-12-11 12:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Angell 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have her put it up for adoption...then buy her some condoms so she can prevent this from happening again!
2006-12-11 12:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋