My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-11 04:39:19 · 12 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its really a tough one to answer. I think ur bf loves u deep in his heart. Otherwise, he wudn't have felt jealous of u dancing with the other guy. But I think u shud have replied when he messaeged u saying the truth, whatever it was. That atleast wud have escaped u from hearing the unnecessary abuses.. But to be frank, i think ur boyfriend is a little harsh in the tongue. And his true love shines only when he doesn't heed to his friends' words but listens to what his heart tells abt u. I don't think he wud have contacted u again if he hadn't missed u. U ought to talk to him directly and without any fear. Tell him softly and clearly that his abuses will not scare u. And that u wanted to talk to him and settle all the misunderstandings and he wud better respond properly and normally. Think twice bfore u come to any decision... Gud luck.. :-)
2006-12-11 04:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Swathi Rao 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are still waiting for his call then you have a serious problem and need help. Girl, whats wrong with you, the guy has issues which he has to deal with and that too big ones. Where do you fit into this picture.
You need to report him to the cops the next time he even tries any abuse.
Take Care and dont fall into this trap otherwise you might not live to see another day.
2006-12-11 04:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by woman28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, and if he starts stalking you or calling you with actual verbal threats, I would call the police department and perhaps ask about getting a protective order. He sounds like a chickensh*t that doesn't have anything better to do than harass someone he has already pushed away by abuse.
2006-12-11 04:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by redrancherogirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He abuses you because he knows you'll put up with it. Tell your dad or brother (preferably older brother) what this guy's doing and see if he keeps it up.
Why would you want to keep in contact with an abusive punk like this anyway? Block his number and tell him if he keeps threatening you that you'll go to the police. If he keeps it up, file a restraining order on his juvenile butt.
2006-12-11 04:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mitch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it variety of feels to me that this guy is an extremely jealous guy. If he rather cared, he might show you how to do what you prefer. and additionally, threatening you like that's a criminal act. He may well be thrown in reformatory, and you, into conserving custody. you could checklist him to the police. If he sends you yet another one like that, they have grounds to arrest him. If at any time, you experience like he's nearby, you call the police. If he gets thrown in reformatory, replace your call interior the witness protection application.
2016-10-18 02:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has major trust, respect and boundry issues. Move on with your life. You don't need that kind of trouble. The abuse will never stop.
2006-12-11 04:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't answer his assaults , I do believe that he will keep harassing you . So I think you should get a restraining order or just change your number for the sake of your life.
2006-12-11 04:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away-stop contact and consider getting a restraining order. He's psycho.
2006-12-11 04:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by LedAstray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I urge you either go to the police or perhaps get your parents to go tothe police, this guy is sick and needs help, perhaps also there is the option of changing your number,nobody has to put up with harrassment like this, mobile phones are very good for emergencies but they also have their down side. get help........quickly.good luck
2006-12-11 05:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy need to be reported to your local law enforcement agency for harassing you and abuse. this should help.
2006-12-11 04:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋