scared feeling alone pregnant?

Question

i have a 15month old i am about 6 weeks pregnant i have very little money no space i drink daily an have just found i am pregnant dont think i could keep him/her although i would love to what can i do please dont be harsh i was taking the pill
please serious answers no being mean

i dont drink much a glass a day most days

Answer 1

PEOPLE WHO HAVE NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION CAN'T SAY ****. THEY CAN SAY PUT DOWN THE GLASS YOU HORRIBLE PERSON. THE CHOICE YOU NEED TO MAKE IS CAN YOU REALLY CARE FOR TWO CHILDREN. CAN YOU GIVE THEM THE LOVE THEY BOTH NEED AND DESERVE IF YOU CAN'T THEN THERE ARE PLENTY OF WOMEN OUT THERE THAT REALLY WANT TO BE PARENTS. SECOND IF YOU DO DRINK DAILY AND QUIT SUDDENLY YOU COULD SEND THE BABY INTO WITHDRAWLS. THE STATE DOES HELP OUT ALOT AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING PROUD OR TRASH IT HAS TO DO WITH YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO. SO JUST THINK ABOUT YOUR OPTIONS AND WEIGH THEM OUT AND DECIDE WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU AND YOU BABIES. AND IF YOU JUST NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME.
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TAKE CARE.

Answer 2

You have a tough decision to make and I do not envy you though I do know how you feel. I am 26 and have a 5 month old, possibly pregnant with #2. My only income is the $600 a month I get from disability and SSI. I get food stamps and that helps. Your best bet if dad is not willing to help is to start making phone calls. Call your local Department of Health and Human Services, and explain your situation. They can sit down with you and help you find the aid that will work for you. Also if you have family and friends that you can trust not to make judgments sit down or call and talk to them you definitely need a shoulder to lean on right now. Most of all take a deep breath and remember you wll get through this. If you ever just need to talk or have any questions feel free to IM or email me Skeeterpup2003 (yahoo email and YIM) good luck and just remember to hang in there.

Answer 3

If you are this overwhelmed a baby is not going to help you. From the few words you have written it sounds as if you should try both psychological and family planning counseling. You need advice from a professional, and you need to do what is best for YOU! This may mean abortion. This may mean adoption. This may mean a complete restructure of your life in order to adapt to a new child. I can't tell you this, and neither can anyone on this board.

I cannot stress enough that you need to take care of YOURSELF right now. The baby is second. Think hard, take care, and good luck!

Answer 4

If it is truly only one glass of wine or beer a day, there shouldn't be a problem. However experts do say you shouldn't drink at all during pregnancy. The real problem as I see it is your not wanting the baby.There are many avenues for you to take to find a loving family for the child. The last thing any one wants is someone raising a child they don't want or cannot take care of. This leads to abuse and worse. So please seek professional help and go to an adoption agency to find help. If you don't want to carry it to term, before it is too late, you may want to consider an abortion. You may want to consider getting your tubes tied after this pregnancy if the pill doesn't work.

Answer 5

okay jus calm down everything is going to be okay. First off do you have any friends you can seriously depend on to watch your child. I mean like a friend who is very responsible. If not find a school where you can take your 15-month old while you work! Second get a job that will pay very good. FULL-TIME! Always try WALMART. They have great benifits. Once you start getting your checks instead of buying what you want save up for a place for you and your kids. Open up a checking account if you have to. When you gotten all of this start to support your children get things they need and not always things they want. Good luck and i will pray for you!

Answer 6

First of all you need to stop drinking, it will harm your baby. Second, you need to get in touch with the department of social services for some assistance. You can also visit the local Planned Parenthood clinic for counseling and neo natal care. The money you save from not drinking will help you feed and care for yourself and your child and the agencies can help you plan and prepare for adoption services or whatever you decide is right. Just know that there is help out there and you are not alone. I wish you the best.

Answer 7

#1 I suggest you get your babies daddy to help you out more with #1 & as far as #2 goes...give it up for adoption if you can't take care of it! If you do really want to keep it..then have the daddy help you out and look into a second job! In order to make sure this doesn't happen again anytime soon..get the implant..works better then the pill! GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

Sorry to hear that you are having such a hard time. Just stay strong. Before making any rash decisions, check into all assistance programs. Then if you decide that you still won't be able to make ends meet, maybe you should check into adoption. Hope everything works out for the best.

Answer 9

find a social worker @ he local hospital or dr's office. we have a place called catholic chairities that help in situations like this. I think there are other places also, social workers can help you find these things. You can give him up for adoption, I know lots of womderful families awaiting a beautiful child. But most importantly you need to stop drinking. Unless you are going to have an abortion this is only fair

Answer 10

If you are not a proud person, you can go to you local dss office and try and get food stamps, wic, mediciad, money to help pay bill and get diapers. Just call your local Deparment of Social Services and apply for all the help you can. If possibal, the baby is best with its mother. Best of luck to you and your little babies. I will say a prayer for you.