for 3 years now, i never told my mom becuase i knew it would break her heart, my doesn't know either, i know he flirts with ohter woman, my mom has high blood pressure telling could break her heart what should i do? keep it to my self forever?
2006-12-11 04:10:54 · 10 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stay out of it
2006-12-11 04:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad about what you know. Tell him that he has to confess to your mom, and that you will tell her if he doesn't; but give him a reasonable chance to tell her first. You also might want to talk to your Pastor, spiritual leader, or some other counselor that will keep your confidence. If you believe that telling him will put you in harm's way, just go to one of the parties I suggested instead.
2006-12-11 14:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by aquaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help. Just mind your own business. No matter how much you think you know what is between your mom and dad you really can't know anything. Just let them live their life and hope things work out for the best. xx
2006-12-11 12:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fisrt off, are you POSITIVE he is cheating?? Flirting is NOT cheating!! I'd suggest you talk to your dad and tell him what you know, not assume!! Then make sure he knows how you feel about it and that keep ing this from your Mom is hurting you too. He has to consider your feelings in this too ... good luck.
2006-12-11 13:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom..she has every right to know. You should talk to your dad first but still tell your mom, wouldnt you like to know if your spouse was cheating on you, I know I would.
2006-12-11 12:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy2three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL UR POPS U KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON. IF HE CAN'T TELL HER, HE IS NOT A MAN HUNNI. JUST AVOID HIM ALL TOGETHER. U SHOULD TRY TO DROP LITTLE HINTS ON UR MOM TO CLUE HER IN ON WHAT IS GOING ON. SHE DESERVES TO KNOW. SHE MAY HAVE HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, BUT SHE WIL NOT DIE FROM IT. GOOD LUCK. LET ME KOW HOW IT TURNS OUT
2006-12-11 16:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom so she could kick his a$$ out the house and let him go stay with the woman who he was with.
2006-12-11 13:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mz.Sexy Key-Key504Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you mom thats all I say
2006-12-11 14:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg dat is like hard maybe u should try talking to ur dad first tell him dat ur mom luvs him alot dat wat he is doin will hurt her more if she finds den if u told her maybe u should think bout chur motha first and put chur dad last he obviously doesnt care bout chur motha if he did he wouldnt be doing it think bout it ur mother or ur dad which side to get on?
2006-12-11 12:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad and ask him why he chooses to do this to your mother--otherwise--stay clear.
2006-12-11 12:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋